somedude81 Posted December 18, 2012 Posted December 18, 2012 Maybe I am. My daughter certainly thinks so! Hah! I can just imagine you picking apart her words and trying to twist the meanings to interpret them the way you want, and she just gives you a cold stare. I don't really think YOU know exactly what you mean. The language that you use and the mindset that you consistently show here really IS giving those of us who read it insight about how your mind works. And we all KNOW that it's standing in your way, seriously. Don't you ever wonder why dozens of people here on LS have similar advice and perceptions of you? It's because of how you express who you are. I know that we are all not exactly as we appear to be on the Internet, but unless a person is an outright troll, after a while they show real aspects of themselves. Like me being annoying, for example. For me "getting a woman" = "having a happy relationship." So whenever you see me say that I want to get a GF or anything similar, it just means that I want to be in a happy relationship. It can also mean that I want to find a girl who wants to be with me. It has nothing to do with me thinking that women are possessions or that I would be taking anything away from anybody. Lastly, that mindset of wanting to "get a girl" is not standing in my way. The very thought of it doing so is asinine. There are many things about me and my beliefs that are hurting me, wanting to have a GF is not one of them.
irc333 Posted December 18, 2012 Posted December 18, 2012 Realize that height is an internet trend. Its only important on the internet. You might run into some problem with women if you are under 5'5. That is the full extent of it. signed, a psychology major Good point, most women don't notice nor care about your height when you approach them face to face, unless the woman is like 6'0" or something. lol But generally, if a woman is 5'5", she won't care or even notice he's 5'8"....because she'll be getting to know his personality.
Mme. Chaucer Posted December 18, 2012 Posted December 18, 2012 Hah! I can just imagine you picking apart her words and trying to twist the meanings to interpret them the way you want, and she just gives you a cold stare. Well, I don't do that. It's more along the lines of "pay your parking ticket" or "don't pick that scab." And whether I'm annoying or not, it's very rude of you to use words like "asinine" to describe the advice people give you around here, which you always solicit. And you do so often. Lastly, that mindset of wanting to "get a girl" is not standing in my way. The very thought of it doing so is asinine. How would you explain the reality that dozens of us here believe that it does?Where do you think we're all getting that same impression? It's been explained to you in detail on many, many threads of yours how and why this very rigid, and obtuse mindset of yours is anathema to the realization of your goal of "getting women." Can you even be willing to consider why it might be that so many people believe they recognize this? I don't think you are a bad guy out to "use" women or anything like that, but your idea of "woman," "girlfriend" and even "friend" is so one dimensional that it could never really function in reality with other people. No women or girls, or guys for that matter, are going to be able to connect with you because of it. As I said earlier, if you would accept the advice you've received (over and over and over) to approach other people, including girls, with a mind to getting to know them and enjoying that process, your life would be different, in a positive way, than it is right now.
silicone Posted December 18, 2012 Posted December 18, 2012 It's not easy to undo a significant amount of time people telling you that you're inferior.
Author O'farrell Posted December 20, 2012 Author Posted December 20, 2012 Saw my friend today on campus. His girlfriend is 5'9 lol. Hes 5'3. 1
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