Dessembrae Posted December 14, 2012 Posted December 14, 2012 So I've finally met someone I'm interested since my break up but I think it might be a lost cause. So I've been working in the bar industry for 3 years now and pretty much know everyone in the other clubs in town, couple months ago I met a bartender at one of the clubs who seemed really interesting, several of my friends told me she was a really great girl so I figured I'd give her a chance. After talking to her for a bit I asked her for my number and she gave it to me, I asked her out and she politely told me she wasn't interested, which I understand considering these girl get hit on a lot. Still this place is somewhere I go to a lot to visit friends who work there so I still saw her and we chatted. Recently one of my female friends who also works there talked to her about me, putting in a "good word" and now the girl I'm interested in has been a lot more affectionate. So I asked her out again and she said yes that shed want to get together for a drink but at the moment is writing 7 finals so shed be almost impossible to get a hold of but would respond when she got a chance. In the last week I've tried to strike up several conversations with no luck just minimum responses. I understand she's busy and I'm giving her the benefit of the doubt, I'm going to leave her be until after exams and after Xmas when things settle down and I ask her again but I still have a feeling it's a loss cause, any thoughts?
AsonUnique Posted December 14, 2012 Posted December 14, 2012 (edited) At most have casual conversations with her when you see her at that bar or wherever. Ease off the date talk. Desperation isn't a good look. I'm not saying you are desperate, but asking again may be tough to pull off. I could see it possibly working if infused with humor like "you dick, when are you going to let me take you out?" Obviously depends if she has a sense of humor, feel free to change whatever u want to call her, but give her **** for lagging. In short, I'd advise you give her space and try to have some quick, fun, casual conversations with her whenever you run into her. Edited December 14, 2012 by AsonUnique punctuation
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