bac Posted December 18, 2012 Posted December 18, 2012 There are a few naturally ugly men. Most of ugly men are totally self-made. Our looks is just a reflection of our brains, attitudes and personality. For example, lets imagine any movie star who is considered to be very good looking. Imagine that the movie star would be self-made the same way as you are self-made. Therefore, he would never go to gym, never have beauty treatments and plastic surgeries, but he would wear your favorite outfits and have your hair cut. Also, he would not be emotionally intelligent enough to become wealthy and he would make about $35000 per year. There are a lot of short/average men who are movie stars. They all are considered to be very attractive. But, if they behaved like you do, they would be as ugly as any other ugly man who does everything to make himself ugly.
Revolver Posted December 18, 2012 Posted December 18, 2012 ^They're only considered attractive because they're rich and famous:laugh:, it has nothing to do with their personality. Alot of those movie stars/entertainers, athletes are arrogant self centered jerks but it doesn't matter because of the resources they have. Lol at thinking any woman would give a damn about Mick Jagger if he was a nobody. Lets keep it real for a second
Lonely Ronin Posted December 18, 2012 Posted December 18, 2012 ^They're only considered attractive because they're rich and famous:laugh:, it has nothing to do with their personality. Alot of those movie stars/entertainers, athletes are arrogant self centered jerks but it doesn't matter because of the resources they have. Lol at thinking any woman would give a damn about Mick Jagger if he was a nobody. Lets keep it real for a second O come on man, even I can admit most of these guys are damn good looking. People's Sexiest Men Alive 2012
Revolver Posted December 18, 2012 Posted December 18, 2012 O come on man, even I can admit most of these guys are damn good looking. People's Sexiest Men Alive 2012 Lol I didn't mean all guys in Hollywood I was refering to the short average guys the poster above me was talking about. Those guys are only considered attractive and get the girls they do because of their fame. Don't get me wrong, guys like Brad Pitt would be swimming in girls regardless because that guy is just a naturally good looking dude
Esoteric Elf Posted December 19, 2012 Posted December 19, 2012 Beyond that don't be the nice guy that wants a women to like him for him with some inane fear of creating a false persona. Its called putting your best foot forward. LMFAO if you don't think women jump through hoops to attract men you are nuts. I may have a little trouble replying to this post, since your syntax slightly confused me; though I believe I get the idea of what you are saying. Of course women jump through hoops to attract men; but they need not to. Girls have been using make-up, extensions, etc. for since we know history; what if they stopped? Sure, many men (and the perhaps more superficial ones I might add) would devalue them, but what of the others? Furthermore, there is a saying that I have heard circulate among women that "they [women] don't dress for men; they dress for each other". Either this axiom is false in part or whole or your statement is partially false. I really want to reply to that first sentence, but, upon further inspection, I can't decide what you are saying. What are you trying to say? How could a guy want a girl to like him for him while creating a false persona? It sounds like a structural (with respect to the sentence) contradiction.
Imported Posted December 19, 2012 Posted December 19, 2012 (edited) I really want to reply to that first sentence, but, upon further inspection, I can't decide what you are saying. What are you trying to say? How could a guy want a girl to like him for him while creating a false persona? It sounds like a structural (with respect to the sentence) contradiction. I thought it was pretty simple, but it's already how I view things. Perhaps, his ideas are not as mine, but I think it is similar enough. Me putting on clothing I never tried before....does not change me. I workout..wait for it......for women. Yes, that is right, I am not one of those guys that claim they are working out just for their health or whatever personal ****. I workout purely to be a lean mean ****ing machine, which would include being able to attract women to ****. I don't worry that the "good'ol boys club" might view my style as gay, because those good'ol boys usually don't really get many women and what I do, does. So I would think, what they're doing is gay or at the very least, what I do is farther away from being gay, but who cares. To each their own. I have too many friends and acquaintances that seem to be stuck with "who they are". They have to wear the potato sack sports team shirt, with crappy ill fitting jeans and stinky holy shoes because that is who they are.....????????? A nice fitting button up collared shirt, can't do that, because it is not who they are. It's ****ing clothing. "Who you are" is just what you're comfortable with. What you're comfortable with is just repetition. Being a better you, with effort and on purpose is not shallow or fake and eventually it will be who you are and very natural. Some people let really stupid **** hold them back. I have my limits, yes and I recognize them as limits and that they are self imposed. And that it is possible that it prevents me, but I am a conservative person at heart. Edited December 19, 2012 by Imported 1
Vercetti Posted December 19, 2012 Posted December 19, 2012 I may have a little trouble replying to this post, since your syntax slightly confused me; though I believe I get the idea of what you are saying. Of course women jump through hoops to attract men; but they need not to. Girls have been using make-up, extensions, etc. for since we know history; what if they stopped? Sure, many men (and the perhaps more superficial ones I might add) would devalue them, but what of the others? Furthermore, there is a saying that I have heard circulate among women that "they [women] don't dress for men; they dress for each other". Either this axiom is false in part or whole or your statement is partially false. I really want to reply to that first sentence, but, upon further inspection, I can't decide what you are saying. What are you trying to say? How could a guy want a girl to like him for him while creating a false persona? It sounds like a structural (with respect to the sentence) contradiction. Sorry thought it was rather simple to understand. Mostly the idea is don't let improving yourself or enhancing your style give fear that a girl isn't going to like you for you. It simply means you will be more attractive and in turn will have greater options for finding a girl that really likes you. I've seen that women don't dress up for men thing before. My future wife when I first encountered her, buying a new outfit / getting a makeover / cutting and colouring hair / waxing / nails done; simply cause she knew I was going to be at a concert and wanted to catch my eye. Make of that what you will.
phineas Posted December 19, 2012 Posted December 19, 2012 Sorry thought it was rather simple to understand. Mostly the idea is don't let improving yourself or enhancing your style give fear that a girl isn't going to like you for you. It simply means you will be more attractive and in turn will have greater options for finding a girl that really likes you. I've seen that women don't dress up for men thing before. My future wife when I first encountered her, buying a new outfit / getting a makeover / cutting and colouring hair / waxing / nails done; simply cause she knew I was going to be at a concert and wanted to catch my eye. Make of that what you will. THIS! When I was chubby I hung out with a woman who worked in my building. She never dressed up or did her nails ect when we were together & she eventually blew me off. A yr later I had dropped 50lbs & she asked me to lunch. Her hair was done, her nails were done, she was at the tanning booth (it was winter) & she was dressed up. But, I had a few women all of sudden remember I existed at that point & it honestly pissed me off at how these all tried to make it seem like they either didn't know why we lost touch or that I was the one who stopped calling them. I just couldn't deal with that crap at the time. So it's another yr later & i'm in better shape & she started showing interest again when i'd see her around the building. So i asked her if she wanted to go christmas shopping tonight. If she doesn't flake & dressed like a bum, nails not done, ect then I know she just wants to be friends and not interested. If she took some effort to look good then it's game on.
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