IT Geek Posted December 14, 2012 Posted December 14, 2012 you would be surprised, but a lot of women and girls don't really like good-looking guys. They think they are cheaters and although girls are attracted to them, not all girls want to have serious relationships with handsome guys. Maybe not, but they won't want a relationship with a fat/ugly guy either.
IT Geek Posted December 14, 2012 Posted December 14, 2012 Beyonce, Megan Fox, Naomi Campbell, Shakira, Julianne Hough, Jessica Biel, Penelope Cruz, Tyra Banks, Kate Walsh, etc., etc., etc. Surely there's more diversity there than just the clothes they wear... The only one on this list I agree with is Julianne Hough.
mesmerized Posted December 14, 2012 Posted December 14, 2012 Lol, I love how the fat ugly men in this forum are agist and sexist but the hot ones aren't. No wonder we don't want your ugly ass. 1
Imported Posted December 15, 2012 Posted December 15, 2012 Rent a ridiculously cool car for a month, like an Aston Martin DB9 Vanquish or actually just a current year high end BMW ....M3/M5/M6 or 750i. Drive around in areas that aren't really populated with people that can afford such things and see what kinda treatment you get.
sweetkiwi Posted December 15, 2012 Posted December 15, 2012 I've had the gorgeous guys. Boring!!! Yes. Im sorry the majority of women like tall athletic guys. The majority of men like thin big breasted gals. But everyone who doesn't fit into either of these categories is getting laid!!!! I had two LTRs with overweight men. They were sexy to me. My most current ex has a natural 6pack. Seriously. And he's too skinny for me. Its much different for an attractive woman. We are constantly hit on, lied to, completely ignored, or treated like crap because of these lame PUA wannabe sites. And sometimes gloriously, we get free drinks free dinner free trips. And only a small percentage of that free stuff is actually free. Most of the time we are reminded of what's been done for us like its a Damn downpayment on our vaginas. Sweet. About <1% of the advances we get are from genuine good guys. Who definitely still want to have sex with us but they won't pressure us into it. 1
Charlie Harper Posted December 15, 2012 Posted December 15, 2012 I've had the gorgeous guys. Boring!!! Yes. Im sorry the majority of women like tall athletic guys. The majority of men like thin big breasted gals. But everyone who doesn't fit into either of these categories is getting laid!!!! I had two LTRs with overweight men. They were sexy to me. My most current ex has a natural 6pack. Seriously. And he's too skinny for me. Its much different for an attractive woman. We are constantly hit on, lied to, completely ignored, or treated like crap because of these lame PUA wannabe sites. And sometimes gloriously, we get free drinks free dinner free trips. And only a small percentage of that free stuff is actually free. Most of the time we are reminded of what's been done for us like its a Damn downpayment on our vaginas. Sweet. About <1% of the advances we get are from genuine good guys. Who definitely still want to have sex with us but they won't pressure us into it. 100% agree, I am getting scared that we think so much alike... One of my closest friends, she is a solid 9 maybe even a 9.5, used to be in love with a guy that was 30 pound overweight, bald, but had a really nice voice and fun to be with. She was crazy about him, they finally ended because the guy got jealous and began controlling her and she grew tired of his insecurities. after they broke up, she told that she used to call him big belly bear as a compliment and he was mad off the roof, because he believed she has mocking him.... Botom line if you are insecure, not even great looks will make score IN THE LONG RUN, maybe one night stands but no real relationships for sure.
CptObvious Posted December 15, 2012 Posted December 15, 2012 I've had the gorgeous guys. Boring!!! Yes. Im sorry the majority of women like tall athletic guys. The majority of men like thin big breasted gals. But everyone who doesn't fit into either of these categories is getting laid!!!! I had two LTRs with overweight men. They were sexy to me. My most current ex has a natural 6pack. Seriously. And he's too skinny for me. Its much different for an attractive woman. We are constantly hit on, lied to, completely ignored, or treated like crap because of these lame PUA wannabe sites. And sometimes gloriously, we get free drinks free dinner free trips. And only a small percentage of that free stuff is actually free. Most of the time we are reminded of what's been done for us like its a Damn downpayment on our vaginas. Sweet. About <1% of the advances we get are from genuine good guys. Who definitely still want to have sex with us but they won't pressure us into it. lol, it was your choice to let us in. You coulda walked off into the sunset with the $200 dinner and whatever else I bought you, but nope, we both know what you want. You asked for it, you enjoyed it. I know I did.
musemaj11 Posted December 15, 2012 Posted December 15, 2012 look at seal. he's one of the ugliest fccks around but he always dresses well and he has sex appeal. Seal is a famous celebrity with millions in his bank account, dude. He doesnt need to look good. I mean Hugh Hefner looks way worse but behold all the playmates around him.
musemaj11 Posted December 15, 2012 Posted December 15, 2012 (edited) Its much different for an attractive woman. We are constantly hit on, lied to, completely ignored, or treated like crap because of these lame PUA wannabe sites. And sometimes gloriously, we get free drinks free dinner free trips. And only a small percentage of that free stuff is actually free. Most of the time we are reminded of what's been done for us like its a Damn downpayment on our vaginas. Sweet. There is no such a thing as free lunch. The guys who gave you the 'free' stuff had to work for the money to buy those things, too. At least providing sex doesnt cost you anything ... Edited December 15, 2012 by musemaj11
GirlontheLam Posted December 15, 2012 Posted December 15, 2012 My god why are women so obsessed with the media? most beauty standards are made by gay men and as hokie said the female standard of beauty is much more diverse these days with different types of women looked at as sex symbols Not really, these so called "diverse" sex symbols are basically the ones that "Anglo" features and/or lighter skin tones. To top it off, half dye their hair blonde and straighten it. Not all that diverse in my book. .....for a man to be conventionally attractive he MUST be tall and then go from there What do you mean? Most of the Hollywood hotties are pretty short. Tom Cruise, Brad Pitt, George Clooney, Robert Downey Jr are all repping the short men pretty well. And there are loads of shorter singers too.
GirlontheLam Posted December 15, 2012 Posted December 15, 2012 There is no such a thing as free lunch. The guys who gave you the 'free' stuff had to work for the money to buy those things, too. At least providing sex doesnt cost you anything ... And sex has so few consequences for women. Like that nine month gift that keeps on giving. Why be selective..... 1
Negative Nancy Posted December 15, 2012 Posted December 15, 2012 It's really difficult to not look good when you're shredded. Throw on a clown costume and bitches can still see it in your eyes that you're a winner. I don't agree with what you said (muscles never make up for an ugly face or a **** personality) but your posting made me laugh.
Negative Nancy Posted December 15, 2012 Posted December 15, 2012 I am assuming he is talking about something you can't overcome with all the efforts. I totally understand when I look at other women. They think getting a tan will make them look pretty They think wearing a nice clothes will make them look pretty They think wearing a good make up will make them look pretty They think working out will make them look pretty You think I am dumb enough not to see through the 'cover'? All these efforts are worthless when there is a naturally pretty girl standing by her even though she is wearing no make up, plain clothes and pale skin. very true, but even if a man was with a model he would still want to bang other women. 1
musemaj11 Posted December 15, 2012 Posted December 15, 2012 And sex has so few consequences for women. Like that nine month gift that keeps on giving. Why be selective..... Yea, something that the guy will also have to bear responsibility over whether he wants it or not if he doesnt wanna end up in jail. Anyway, my point was simply that there is nothing free in this world. We all have to give something for what we get and we are naive if we think otherwise.
rocketman122 Posted December 15, 2012 Posted December 15, 2012 What do you mean? Most of the Hollywood hotties are pretty short. Tom Cruise, Brad Pitt, George Clooney, Robert Downey Jr are all repping the short men pretty well. And there are loads of shorter singers too. hes not short.
Negative Nancy Posted December 15, 2012 Posted December 15, 2012 There is no such a thing as free lunch. The guys who gave you the 'free' stuff had to work for the money to buy those things, too. At least providing sex doesnt cost you anything ... There is no such thing as free sex. The women who gave you the "free" nookie had to work for their body and their attractiveness too. Providing a relationship instead of just pumping and dumping doesn't cost guys anything either.... 1
AlexDP Posted December 15, 2012 Posted December 15, 2012 I've had the gorgeous guys. Boring!!! Yes. Im sorry the majority of women like tall athletic guys. The majority of men like thin big breasted gals. But everyone who doesn't fit into either of these categories is getting laid!!!! I had two LTRs with overweight men. They were sexy to me. My most current ex has a natural 6pack. Seriously. And he's too skinny for me. Its much different for an attractive woman. We are constantly hit on, lied to, completely ignored, or treated like crap because of these lame PUA wannabe sites. And sometimes gloriously, we get free drinks free dinner free trips. And only a small percentage of that free stuff is actually free. Most of the time we are reminded of what's been done for us like its a Damn downpayment on our vaginas. Sweet. About <1% of the advances we get are from genuine good guys. Who definitely still want to have sex with us but they won't pressure us into it. I completely get where you're coming from. You raise a couple of very good points. But you also have to realise that many attractive women do negotiate with their attractiveness and do use it to have men buy them stuff. Because women do this, PUA website will claim that you need to be treated like crap to remind you that you're just a normal girl. Personally I've witnessed first hand how gorgeous women can be the most insecure. Treating them like crap might get you laid, but it also leads to highly dysfunctional relationships.
musemaj11 Posted December 15, 2012 Posted December 15, 2012 (edited) There is no such thing as free sex. The women who gave you the "free" nookie had to work for their body and their attractiveness too. I agree with you. I dont think I ever indicated otherwise. I never implied that men deserve free sex from women. I made that comment in response to the woman who seemed to 'complain' that the free drinks, free trips and other freebies that she got from guys aren't 'free' after all as if men should just give to her like they give to charity. Providing a relationship instead of just pumping and dumping doesn't cost guys anything either.... As far as I know movie tickets, dinners, and gas cost money. I dont think most if any woman would want to have a relationship with a man if she had to be the one bearing most of the expense unless she had no other choice anyway ... Edited December 15, 2012 by musemaj11
silicone Posted December 15, 2012 Posted December 15, 2012 I've experimented with myself. I seem to get the most attention when I'm in a suit with matching shirt and tie; when I have a slight stubble and when I have nicely cut and shorter hair. It does help that I have a general muscular build, but I don't know if I'm a bit thin. That said, 52kg for a guy isn't much, but it does show on my height at 157cm.
sweetkiwi Posted December 15, 2012 Posted December 15, 2012 There is no such a thing as free lunch. The guys who gave you the 'free' stuff had to work for the money to buy those things, too. At least providing sex doesnt cost you anything ... No one twisted their arms to rush to the bar to buy me a drink. But i am supposed to have sex with a guy for only that reason?????! Not. Why not just give me a cash offer If that's all you think sex is worth?? Then i can buy my own drink and not talk to a creep who thinks my vaginal hole costs €xxx,xx. Gross. And the guys i actually allow inside my vagina don't do this immature crap of "oh i bought you something, sleep with me". But that's the way it is most of the time eh? You'll put your dick in anything and say and do anything to get it. And us women have to sift through endless losers and wanna be players to find a real man. And being in Italy this is magnified ten fold. Almost everyone is ****ing in cars, cheating, and buying sex. So initially its much harder to avoid these types as they come concealed in a sexy smile and suave words. But they show their hand quite quickly. Like you Im sure. It must suck to never sleep with a woman who actually ALLOW WANTS to sleep with you instead of being bought and tricked. Makes for boring sex. But you wouldn't know the difference anyway.
Tara247 Posted December 15, 2012 Posted December 15, 2012 And us women have to sift through endless losers and wanna be players to find a real man. Unfortunately, I'm going to have to agree with this.
silicone Posted December 15, 2012 Posted December 15, 2012 Unfortunately, I'm going to have to agree with this. As a rebuttal, isn't it the females who decide who they want to go out with?
sweetkiwi Posted December 15, 2012 Posted December 15, 2012 Oh greznog. Who says? Yeah sometimes a gal needs to be turned out by a big sexy hunk who probably can't do anything better than mindless sex. Just like men like having sex with barbies who can't string together a sentence without using like like and um like. But do i want that mans children? Hell no. Would i ever consider him as a real partner. Hell no. We are ALL influenced by our hormones. Don't forget, you're half lady too . Let's not keep making the same ignorant statements for attention okay? Thanks honey. I hope whoever chose the sexy guy over you gets what they deserve. But it wasn't me. Or women on this forum.
silicone Posted December 15, 2012 Posted December 15, 2012 Not really, women are slaves to their hormones and biology to a far greater degree than men are. They can't help it if the guys their father would love as a son in law just don't turn them on. Oh greznog. Who says? Yeah sometimes a gal needs to be turned out by a big sexy hunk who probably can't do anything better than mindless sex. Just like men like having sex with barbies who can't string together a sentence without using like like and um like. But do i want that mans children? Hell no. Would i ever consider him as a real partner. Hell no. We are ALL influenced by our hormones. Don't forget, you're half lady too . Let's not keep making the same ignorant statements for attention okay? Thanks honey. I hope whoever chose the sexy guy over you gets what they deserve. But it wasn't me. Or women on this forum. The mind and will power is stronger than hormones. If it weren't temptation would always leads to the next thing. Whoever said anything about me not being chosen over someone else? Who knows, maybe it was you.
rocketman122 Posted December 15, 2012 Posted December 15, 2012 I'm hoping this also, got two very attractive women i'm talking to now. One is 40 and she acts like she isn't all that interested although we are meeting up next week for sure. but all this week she seems to be "busy" a lot without offering an alternative, but I go a few days without contacting her and she asks me to lunch. LOL! (I had a lunch party & had to decline). The other one is about 41, born in India, attractive & going for her PhD. She wants to meet. But it's going to happen after I meet with the other woman due to her finals. Either way, Both these women I believe are looking for a real relationship & not some casual fling like the majority of women our age I meet these days & since i've decided i'm done with such women & looking for something non casual I think i'm in a good place. first one sounds iffy. if she doesnt give you an alternative day and then calls for lunch. thats weird. yes many woman wrote theyre looking for a serious relationship when I was OLD. but most of them dont really know what they want. I can envision what kind of relationship I have, why cant they? good for you man. I hope it goes well for you. fingers crossed buddy. get yours.
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