PJKino Posted December 13, 2012 Posted December 13, 2012 I wish i could see how it is to be a good looking guy for a day to see how much easier it is to attract women your attracted to.. to get their attention easier have women openly lust after you physically instead of having to get a girl to like you in spite of your looks etc Im not saying its the end all be all but if youre good looking as long as youre not socially reatrded its gotta be a good feeling when it comes to dealing with the opposite sex and getting positive responses before you even say a word 5
rocketman122 Posted December 13, 2012 Posted December 13, 2012 I wish i could see how it is to be a good looking guy for a day to see how much easier it is to attract women your attracted to.. to get their attention easier have women openly lust after you physically instead of having to get a girl to like you in spite of your looks etc Im not saying its the end all be all but if youre good looking as long as youre not socially reatrded its gotta be a good feeling when it comes to dealing with the opposite sex and getting positive responses before you even say a word why one day? you can be that person every day. go to the gym. get muscular, dress nice, style your hair, have excellent hygiene and youre already half way there. even if you dont have the best face but youre fit (im not talking about being skinny and ripped. get muscular means at minimum weighing your height -im 183cm and weigh 95kg)and dress well, you will still be able to do well to attract women. look at seal. he's one of the ugliest fccks around but he always dresses well and he has sex appeal. to hold them, its up to you and the gift of gab. listen, there's no secret here. woman are attracted to the same things men are. its very simple. if the person is a fat lazy slob who sits in front of the tv and wears tshirts with pringles oil stains and crumbs on the shirt, youre going to have a hard time. not to bring any guy down, but shorter guys will have a harder time. just being honest here. 6
Charlie Harper Posted December 13, 2012 Posted December 13, 2012 In my case and a lot I know height has nothing to do with sex appeal in the long run, yeah women like a tall guy and also a handsome guy and if he has money all the better, but I wont make you have a meaningful relationship. Emotional connection WILL, and being yourself is what makes you win, sooner or later if you are not secure/emotional/ have integrity and be fun to be with, no amount of handsomeness will make you get the right person for you. 3
Author PJKino Posted December 13, 2012 Author Posted December 13, 2012 why one day? you can be that person every day. go to the gym. get muscular, dress nice, style your hair, have excellent hygiene and youre already half way there. even if you dont have the best face but youre fit (im not talking about being skinny and ripped. get muscular means at minimum weighing your height -im 183cm and weigh 95kg)and dress well, you will still be able to do well to attract women. look at seal. he's one of the ugliest fccks around but he always dresses well and he has sex appeal. to hold them, its up to you and the gift of gab. listen, there's no secret here. woman are attracted to the same things men are. its very simple. if the person is a fat lazy slob who sits in front of the tv and wears tshirts with pringles oil stains and crumbs on the shirt, youre going to have a hard time. not to bring any guy down, but shorter guys will have a harder time. just being honest here. Yeah even if i work out my face is not very attractive at all,and to your point about height im only around 5'7- 5'8 so thats another strike against me as you said
somedude81 Posted December 13, 2012 Posted December 13, 2012 Good looking guys almost know what it's like to get the same amount of attention as the average woman. Not so good looking guys are invisible. 3
ScreamingTrees Posted December 13, 2012 Posted December 13, 2012 Yeah even if i work out my face is not very attractive at all,and to your point about height im only around 5'7- 5'8 so thats another strike against me as you said I'm about 5'9-5'8 throughout the day, and I don't consider that a "strike".. Nor would I ever stand for anyone to treat me any differently than anyone else, unless they want to taste my fist in their mouth and wear dentures for the rest of their life. Dental implants are expensive as ****, I hear. So speak for yourself, shorty. 1
Author PJKino Posted December 13, 2012 Author Posted December 13, 2012 In my case and a lot I know height has nothing to do with sex appeal in the long run, yeah women like a tall guy and also a handsome guy and if he has money all the better, but I wont make you have a meaningful relationship. Emotional connection WILL, and being yourself is what makes you win, sooner or later if you are not secure/emotional/ have integrity and be fun to be with, no amount of handsomeness will make you get the right person for you. Yeah but to get your foot in the door for that emotional connection you need the looks first
rocketman122 Posted December 13, 2012 Posted December 13, 2012 Yeah but to get your foot in the door for that emotional connection you need the looks first yes, you need to get her eyes on you first. once she's interested then you can approach. height is not a strike, just that it will be a bit more difficult. and face is important but if you have an average face and great body that will help. nice body is not the kind where you will only see it with clothes off. you have to have some mass on you. also wear fitted clothing (no skinny jeans-slim straight is good)
Content Posted December 13, 2012 Posted December 13, 2012 As cliche as it sound just love yourself dude theyres more to life then just relationships.. Theyres good looking people who do "well" with women as faras hooking up but cant keep a relationship and wish they could.. Also dont listen to clowns saying height will hinder you..Im 5'8 and never had an issue with women..online is the only place where height seems to be some magical thing for men 1
Vercetti Posted December 13, 2012 Posted December 13, 2012 Don't be so down on yourself. If you are not dressing to kill, go over to GQ and Askmen and check out some of their fashion etiquette. Just tossing a sport-coat on will blast you pass the majority of men running around in jeans baggy shirts and athletic shoes. Plus if your worried about being short...honestly you can dress around that, maybe roll with some leather boots if you think stomping around with a extra inch or two will boost your ego. We all have faults we have to work around and most of the time we are the only ones that notice them. 2
Charlie Harper Posted December 14, 2012 Posted December 14, 2012 Holy Crap I am 5´7 nobody told I should have been a lonely, rejected loser... maybe that is why I always date women and have tons of female friends... most of them taller than me...but hey you are the only one putting barriers on what you can accomplish. 1
truth_prevails Posted December 14, 2012 Posted December 14, 2012 I try not to have thoughts like these, because you never really know what the real answer is. You think to yourself, it must be so great to have/be x, but then you realize that there are so many people in the world that have/are x and they're still unhappy. The only thing that really matters is working to make yourself happy and be grateful for the good things you have in your life.
mesmerized Posted December 14, 2012 Posted December 14, 2012 I feel the same way sometimes. But not for just good looking but extremely gorgeous bombshell looking. I really wonder how every day life is for them. 2
GirlontheLam Posted December 14, 2012 Posted December 14, 2012 I feel the same way sometimes. But not for just good looking but extremely gorgeous bombshell looking. I really wonder how every day life is for them. Last weekend I wore a dress that was, let's say a bit more attention grabbing than usual. Well the whole evening was like an entirely new experience is all I have to say. Most days I look preppy, this was less preppy than usual -- preppy pattern, body conscious fit. 2-3 inches above the knee. A dress that is not good for work, but wouldn't offend my mom either. I paired it with some patterned tights, flat shoes and a cardigan aka conservative accessories. I met some friends (mostly women) at the bar. Ages from 30s to 40s. Anyway, the verdict from the women: really cute dress. Super flattering. And it won everyone over with pockets. As for men? Usually when I walk down the street, people smile, some say hi and that's the end of the story. On that night? They stopped with questions about "are you single?" LOL. At the bar? Lots of looks but I didn't offer up any come hither eyes. Unfortunately there was a target, but the timing never seemed to work out to talk to him long enough. The most hilarious encounter is a very long story, someone I had met months before and he had asked me out the last time. I thought he was cute but immature. He recognized me as the one who turned him down. Later int the evening, he flagged me when I walked by again, I chatted a bit and this time I gave him my number. Later in the night, he came over to my circle of friends. And sent some interesting texts while he was sitting across from me at the bar. "How big are your boobs, will you show me, I'd like to examine them myself?" That was hilarious, sketchy, and ridiculous all at the same time. And no, I didn't have all that much cleavage. Around a respectable 1.5 inches I think the verdict is, I might have to save this dress for right occasion. I am not used to getting *that* kind of attention. So OP: switch up your clothes, as a woman, I love a sharp dressed man. And for the ladies, well wearing new clothing can be interesting as well. I was more than a little surprised at the attention I got for the whole night. 1
USMCHokie Posted December 14, 2012 Posted December 14, 2012 I'd be curious to experience this too... Sure, grooming, style, and fitness will help, but it can only do so much. Genetics is a powerful force... 1
somedude81 Posted December 14, 2012 Posted December 14, 2012 On second thought, I'd pass. Why? Because I would hate going back to regular invisible me.
rocketman122 Posted December 14, 2012 Posted December 14, 2012 (edited) Sure, grooming, style, and fitness will help, but it can only do so much. you have to start with something. if youre fat and you dress like a bum then you dont have a chance. I knew there were people here who have self esteem problems, but didnt really know there were so many..hmm. Edited December 14, 2012 by rocketman122
somedude81 Posted December 14, 2012 Posted December 14, 2012 Sure, grooming, style, and fitness will help, but it can only do so much. you have to start with something. if youre fat and you dress like a bum then you dont have a chance. I knew there were people here who have self esteem problems, but didnt really know there were so many..hmm. What if you aren't fat and don't dress like a bum but are still invisible?
rocketman122 Posted December 14, 2012 Posted December 14, 2012 What if you aren't fat and don't dress like a bum but are still invisible? you have to start with something. woman and men are the same when it comes to attraction. are you going to be a attracted to a fat woman who dresses like a bum? we all have some standard. if I take the time to look nice and be fi, I want someone who's also concious of these things.
somedude81 Posted December 14, 2012 Posted December 14, 2012 you have to start with something. woman and men are the same when it comes to attraction. are you going to be a attracted to a fat woman who dresses like a bum? we all have some standard. if I take the time to look nice and be fi, I want someone who's also concious of these things. Seems you misunderstood what I wrote. If you start at not being fat and looking like a bum, what do you do when you still aren't being noticed by women.
GirlontheLam Posted December 14, 2012 Posted December 14, 2012 What if you aren't fat and don't dress like a bum but are still invisible? work on creating presence. Try Toastmasters.
CptObvious Posted December 14, 2012 Posted December 14, 2012 It's really difficult to not look good when you're shredded. Throw on a clown costume and bitches can still see it in your eyes that you're a winner. 1
yongyong Posted December 14, 2012 Posted December 14, 2012 I am assuming he is talking about something you can't overcome with all the efforts. I totally understand when I look at other women. They think getting a tan will make them look pretty They think wearing a nice clothes will make them look pretty They think wearing a good make up will make them look pretty They think working out will make them look pretty You think I am dumb enough not to see through the 'cover'? All these efforts are worthless when there is a naturally pretty girl standing by her even though she is wearing no make up, plain clothes and pale skin. why one day? you can be that person every day. go to the gym. get muscular, dress nice, style your hair, have excellent hygiene and youre already half way there. even if you dont have the best face but youre fit (im not talking about being skinny and ripped. get muscular means at minimum weighing your height -im 183cm and weigh 95kg)and dress well, you will still be able to do well to attract women. look at seal. he's one of the ugliest fccks around but he always dresses well and he has sex appeal. to hold them, its up to you and the gift of gab. listen, there's no secret here. woman are attracted to the same things men are. its very simple. if the person is a fat lazy slob who sits in front of the tv and wears tshirts with pringles oil stains and crumbs on the shirt, youre going to have a hard time. not to bring any guy down, but shorter guys will have a harder time. just being honest here.
USMCHokie Posted December 14, 2012 Posted December 14, 2012 It's really difficult to not look good when you're shredded. Throw on a clown costume and bitches can still see it in your eyes that you're a winner. Eh, that's assuming that you're not clothed... I would venture to say that I'm "not fat" by any stretch of the imagination, but when I'm out and about in clothes, I don't really think I get any attention or perception that I'm a "winner".
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