cridam15 Posted December 13, 2012 Posted December 13, 2012 Hi, I'm 19, been going out with my girl for 8 months now, its been great and I really like this girl. I've been noticing that my girl has been "forgetting about me" frequently as of late. She's also been pretty busy...Her mother recently was announced with cancer, she has to work on the weekends, is the president and head coordinator of events for the honor society in her school, goes to dance classes and has her own very good grades to keep up each semester. I understand that she has a lot on her plate to deal with now and it can be very frustrating for her and she needs her space. I told her I miss her and it would be nice to give me a hello now and then, because lately she doesn't like to reach me, even if she isn't occupied. We got into a small dispute because of this and I tried to make it up to her by surprising her with a gift and a rose on her way to school one day. (was this too much?) I don't want my girl thinking I am becoming some sort of a clingy person. On the gift I wrote that I know she needs her space and I will give her all the space she needs. What should I do? I constantly am having her on my mind and always wondering what shes doing since she isn't talking to me as she used to, to the point that I am getting paranoid about it. I feel that continuously thinking like this is gonna make me explode with confusion and desperation to where I think my girl will not want to talk to me at all if she sees that I expect her to talk to me. I think I am possibly crazy? or just really worried about her...What should I do now?
Ruby Slippers Posted December 13, 2012 Posted December 13, 2012 Give her space. You being clingy and overly sweet right now will only make things worse. If she comes back, great. If not, I'm sorry, but she's not that into you
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