surfer67 Posted December 13, 2012 Posted December 13, 2012 Im just curious because I like it when my guy gets a little jealous or protective of me. But is it the same for guys? Im not talking about that crazy girlfriend who gets jealous and mad about everything either!
SoulSearcher22 Posted December 13, 2012 Posted December 13, 2012 of course. Jealousy means the other cares for you. A lot of times though, both parties may try to hide it so they don't come off as insecure. But I don't. If another guy is hitting on my girlfriend when we are out or at a bar, I'll swiftly and politely come up, kiss the hell out of her and then continue what I was doing (playing pool usually, if we're at bar). Most of the time, she's very surprise and then gazes at me dreamily and forgets the guy is there, if he even stays. Best way to do it. 3
todreaminblue Posted December 13, 2012 Posted December 13, 2012 of course. Jealousy means the other cares for you. A lot of times though, both parties may try to hide it so they don't come off as insecure. But I don't. If another guy is hitting on my girlfriend when we are out or at a bar, I'll swiftly and politely come up, kiss the hell out of her and then continue what I was doing (playing pool usually, if we're at bar). Most of the time, she's very surprise and then gazes at me dreamily and forgets the guy is there, if he even stays. Best way to do it. lol classic, makes it easy fro the girl...most letchy guys if you say you have a boyfriend think you are just saying that because honestly girls do use the boyfriend excuse...... i dont.....when i havent go tone and soemtimes it woudl be so easy just to say those four words....... i think you can handle feelings jealousy liek any other insecurity.....when i feel insecure about the person i care about ....ill join in the conversation....i wont be forward in how i feel....ill be like i always am ..... polite....but i would stand as close as i could...subliminal is more my style...the guy i was with would know...the girl would think i wa sfriendly because i am friendly..insecurities i leave them in my head..if she was all over him....i do kick box thats a bit of a danger zone....smilin....i am kidding.....if my boyfriend(future is undecided lol) were to do the classic thing you said....id be dreamy too...mainly i handle things like that myself in relationships.........deb
MrCastle Posted December 13, 2012 Posted December 13, 2012 I like it when it's warranted. For example, there's two girls I dig. They know each other. One day one of the girls caught me talking to/flirting with the other, and when that girl walked away, the other girl teased me in a school girl voice and say "Yooou like herrr :p" and I chuckled and said "Haha, you girls are both cool in your own ways ;)" What's not cool is when she falsely accuses you of something. Like if you take 10 minutes to text her, she's like "what took you so long? you talking to one of your girlfriends?" There's jealousy, and then there's neediness, clinginess, and lack of trust. There's another girl I talk to that almost every convo we have leads to her assuming I'm sleeping with a girl and I have to clarify. I'll say something like "My film teacher is really cool, she really knows her stuff". And the girl will say something like "Oh did you bang her yet?" And I'll have to play it off and say "Nope. Not yet." But in the back of my mind I'm like arrrg, insecurity is a turn off!
TheZebra Posted December 13, 2012 Posted December 13, 2012 Girl here, but I can tell you that my ex absolutely hated it. I was never the jealous type, but he made it clear that he hated it when his exes would pull that jealousy stuff on him. He always said he was thankful I wasn't like that. On a side note, I don't think jealousy is a sign of love or caring. None of my exes ever exhibited any signs of jealousy but I knew they loved me by everything else they did. Calling/communicating, gifts, spending time, planning the future, physical affection, etc.
TooPatient Posted December 13, 2012 Posted December 13, 2012 I dig a little reasonable jealousy. If it leads to fights then no...but if a girl needs some reassurance every once in a while, I'm ok with that. 1
Ami1uwant Posted December 13, 2012 Posted December 13, 2012 As a guy I cant stand jealousy...its an utter turn off. I am not going to be jealous of her because I trust her. To me jealousy is part of a game playng.
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