one goal Posted December 13, 2012 Posted December 13, 2012 So today is the last day of class. How do I ask that hot chick out after class if I get a chance to? Also if I don't get a chance to talk to her, how should I do it via email?
naviis Posted December 13, 2012 Posted December 13, 2012 Wasn't this settled in one of the countless threads you've started about this girl? YES, ask her out, NO don't do it via email or text or Facebook. You go up to her, you suggest a date, time and place to meet, and she either says yes or no. If she says yes, you're golden. If she says no because the time/day isn't good for her, make plans for an alternative straight away. If she says no and is unwilling to set another date, you move on and be obsessive about someone else. 2
Author one goal Posted December 13, 2012 Author Posted December 13, 2012 I didn't get a chance to walk out with her after class because when we finished our exams we could leave. I waited around a bit but she wasn't done yet. Anyways since I didn't get to see her after class, what is the proper way to ask her if she wants to hangout sometime if I email her? I was going to email her about how poorly I did on the test. I had to guess on a lot of the questions and she knows I'm not doing good in there.
Author one goal Posted December 13, 2012 Author Posted December 13, 2012 So how should I ask her out? Should I just ask her if she wants to meet up at school sometimes and hangout, or should i tell her my feelings and like ask her out on an actual date?
Author one goal Posted December 13, 2012 Author Posted December 13, 2012 bump. Im emailing her soon. What should I say?
TheZebra Posted December 13, 2012 Posted December 13, 2012 Why'd you wait until the last day? The worst part about emailing is that if she doesn't respond, you'll be worrying about whether she even got the email in the first place, and that's no good. If you're dead set on the email, just be casual about it, like it's no big deal. The more feelings you pour out, the more likely it'll be that she'll just ignore you.
todreaminblue Posted December 13, 2012 Posted December 13, 2012 bump. Im emailing her soon. What should I say? how baout hey, are you doing anything tomorrow or(insert date time here)....you want to (go, do, see, spend some time together) whatever you feel like doing.....choose soemthing simple as a first date...nothing invloved .....dont see a movie kills convo..i fyou are nervous seeign a movie might be good because it does give you time to relax...and just enjoy spending time with that person...best wishes....i dotn think you are being obsessive at all......but then....lol....guess what ....smilin..i am ocd when i am in that mood.....so i am not one to say .......deb
todreaminblue Posted December 13, 2012 Posted December 13, 2012 Why'd you wait until the last day? The worst part about emailing is that if she doesn't respond, you'll be worrying about whether she even got the email in the first place, and that's no good. If you're dead set on the email, just be casual about it, like it's no big deal. The more feelings you pour out, the more likely it'll be that she'll just ignore you. i agree texting and emailing are a no response possibility some people dont check their phones(if they remember to even charge them ) and a lot of people check emails randomly...thats why talking to someone helps......a lot.....i dont check email unless i have to .....deb
Author one goal Posted December 13, 2012 Author Posted December 13, 2012 i agree texting and emailing are a no response possibility some people dont check their phones(if they remember to even charge them ) and a lot of people check emails randomly...thats why talking to someone helps......a lot.....i dont check email unless i have to .....deb She uses her email alot. She usually responds pretty quick. Guess she has it on her phone.
TheZebra Posted December 13, 2012 Posted December 13, 2012 i agree texting and emailing are a no response possibility some people dont check their phones(if they remember to even charge them ) and a lot of people check emails randomly...thats why talking to someone helps......a lot.....i dont check email unless i have to .....deb Oh so true.. with my current guy I added him on linkedin and was crushed when a week later he still hadn't accepted my add. I thought it was a sure sign that he wanted nothing to do with me. 3 weeks later I get an email saying he accepted. When I check the site, he accepted a ton of other people at the same time. Turns out that he just checks it like, once every 2 months and I was beating myself up over nothing... lol
Author one goal Posted December 14, 2012 Author Posted December 14, 2012 She replied back. I emailed her to ask what she thought of the test and that. here is the last part of my email. She ignored it and just talked about the test. Should I tell her honestly that I like her and that and be honest? Oh, and sorry for being so shy in class around you! I've always wanted to talk more in class. You seem like a cool girl! Very mature compared to others at school Maybe sometime we can hangout together or something at school
Author one goal Posted December 14, 2012 Author Posted December 14, 2012 I sent another email being honest with her and told her I kind of liked her and that is also a reason I was shy around her. She replied back with "merry Christmas" That's it.
naviis Posted December 15, 2012 Posted December 15, 2012 I sent another email being honest with her and told her I kind of liked her and that is also a reason I was shy around her. She replied back with "merry Christmas" That's it. Next. Sorry kiddo...
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