Mr. Asiana Posted December 13, 2012 Posted December 13, 2012 I've been in a relationship for 3 years with a woman I've never really been that attracted to. I met her on the rebound of my divorce and had let her in because of her attributes of sweetness, loyalty, relationship with my kids and intellect. She is a pretty woman but doesn't take care of her body and I am just not into that. Now I'm leaving on holiday with her and my daughter to her country and feel stronger than ever that this relationship is wrong, but I am afraid of "ending-it" over the next 4 weeks in a foreign country with my daughter. There never seems to be the right time to have a sit down as I have let myself become obligated (manipulated) for additional ($$$) trips for the next 6 months. Oh yes, and we are tied up in property together:( I know I can be happier if I get out, I just cannot seem to find the right time! Feeling Petty
JamesM Posted December 13, 2012 Posted December 13, 2012 After commenting on your other thread about your weight, I now see more of the picture here. You do need to break up, but you do need to pick a good time. She deserves someone who loves her as she is and not as you want her. She was your rebound woman because she cared for you and showed you compassion at a time when you were hurting. Just be certain that this is what you want. And it sounds like you need to be more assertive with her and yourself. Three years is a long time, but it is not ten. And if you do not make a decision soon, then you will be still dissatisfied in another three years. No one here can give you the courage. We can give you advice. We can give you the words. We cannot actually propel you to do it. There will never be a good time, but some times are better. And preparing for the right time is a good idea.
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