WantanS4 Posted August 12, 2004 Posted August 12, 2004 I asked to her to go to lunch... why.... i guess cause i missed her... and welll she accepted and now what the hell am i gonna say? I have no idea where to begin..... or what to do.... it's... uhh... I need backup!!! NOW!!! I mean... do i ask her how she feels... or do i just not even touch base on any of that and play it cool...... uhh.. a part of me wants to ask her what she thinks and what she wants.. and how she feels... but... uhh..... i don't think that (with her attitude) it will go too well if we get too deep.... i asked her on the phone what she wants... and she says... "uh..huh... nothing... i don't want anything at all...." so... HELP!
cinnamonstix49 Posted August 13, 2004 Posted August 13, 2004 I am so confused!! What happened? huh? Who did you ask to lunch? Your ex... I am guessing?? If so... maybe you could just try to talk as friends, ignore whatever happened... if you could tell me some more about it maybe I would be more help..?
joeyNoelle Posted August 13, 2004 Posted August 13, 2004 So you asked your ex to lunch? Were they the one who broke up with you? if so and you asked them to lunch BOLD move! congrats Anyway when you go to lunch play it cool, just chat generally suss out the general vibe keep it cool and casual. Depending on how long ago you broke up and if this is the first time seeing eachother since will determine if you can discuss how each is feeling. If its the first encounter avoid this it will translate as desperation.However if you feel comfortable enough go ahead and ask. What do you mean by her attitude?
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