lov Posted December 13, 2012 Posted December 13, 2012 I broke up with my ex about 8 months ago and he imediately jumped into a relationship , while he was in the relationship he kept begging me to take him back for 4 months.I didn't take him back because i was seeing someone else , however 4 months later i decided to give it another try , I then called him and we met and he told me he was still very much in love with me and is happy that i would consider giving him a second chance. So my question is would we still consider him to be in a rebound relationship even after 8 months. culd he be in love with this girl ???
Caryopteris Posted December 15, 2012 Posted December 15, 2012 I wouldn't worry about the terminology, "rebound." It sounds like he is a typical guy that gets attached to a woman fine, but plays by the rules, so if he is cut loose, he takes advantage of the attention some other woman has been wanting to give him. But it sounds like you are still his first choice. So I don't think you can fault him for seeing somebody else if you broke up with him. Just ask him if he is giving up the other girl and is just going to see you. And then believe him unless there is some reason not to.
ConfusedHumanBeing Posted December 16, 2012 Posted December 16, 2012 I wouldn't worry about the terminology, "rebound." It sounds like he is a typical guy that gets attached to a woman fine, but plays by the rules, so if he is cut loose, he takes advantage of the attention some other woman has been wanting to give him. But it sounds like you are still his first choice. So I don't think you can fault him for seeing somebody else if you broke up with him. Just ask him if he is giving up the other girl and is just going to see you. And then believe him unless there is some reason not to. THIS ^^^. I think since he cared about you so much, he wanted to fill that void the best he could. The SAME day my ex broke up with me, I was devistated, but signed up for a Match.com account within the hour lol. Was I REALLY looking for love again? No of course not. My ex continues to be the highlight reel in my head still,but I wanted that companionship and wanted to feel accepted. If you have ever been dumped by someone you truely love, the PAIN is almost too much at times. It obviously sounds like HE would drop anything to be back with you....which is nice dont get me wrong....but if that occurs, tread softly please. He might have put you on this pedistal SO SO high after you guys BU, that when/if you guys get back together, he might be disappointed a bit. NOT saying that you aren't a great person please dont take it that way, but he probably built you up in his head as this goddess who controls the world lol. I do that with my ex now. I was having some doubts about our future together, and then she BU with me, and I was and still am crushed. I'm making her out to be Superwoman who does NO WRONG lol. It's just something that happens and if he was begging for you for four months, I can almost promise you he has done that. I hope things work out!!
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