dwntown Posted December 12, 2012 Posted December 12, 2012 Hi All.... Need some advise on what to do if anything... My ex gf of 5 years left me for another woman. This woman is 8 months pregnant and is married to a man. My gf at the time denied any affair was going on and that they were “just friends” that worked together. I moved out of our house because I could not take the lies anymore and she still continues to lie to me about the affair. My ex and I are no longer in contact because I have no respect for what she has done to our 5 year relationship and what she is doing to that family and baby that is coming. My ex doesn’t seem to think about the consequence of her decisions and I’m just sitting back waiting for her to get slapped in the face by reality. This affair started the end of July and before this my ex was planning our wedding and talking about kids. I’m not sure the married woman knows of mine and my ex’s relationship since my ex wasn’t “out” at work. What are your thoughts? I do still love my ex but can’t stand her, and her lies, and how selfish she is. Do you think she’ll wake up and realize what she’s done? Part of me thinks she thought “the grass would be greener” since our relationship had started getting boring and routine; we were just about to celebrate our 5 year anniversary.
TaraMaiden Posted December 12, 2012 Posted December 12, 2012 What are your thoughts? I do still love my ex but can’t stand her, and her lies, and how selfish she is. Okay.... not sure where your confusion is, here.... Do you think she’ll wake up and realize what she’s done? Who cares? Does it matter? It's over. You wouldn't take her back now, would you?
Sugarkane Posted December 13, 2012 Posted December 13, 2012 How odd. I imagine she should soon get sick of being the OW. As you are never a high priority and always kept a secret and second best.
Author dwntown Posted December 13, 2012 Author Posted December 13, 2012 I love the person she was, not who she is now.
coffeebean201 Posted December 13, 2012 Posted December 13, 2012 I kind of stopped reading when you said you wanted her slapped in the face with reality. I've seen so many nasty breakups where they actually do want the other person to suffer. Regardless of how this ended and who she "is in love with now", try to redirect your anger and frustration at something other than her. If she needs you, she knows where to find you. Sorry you are going through this. Do they work together?
Radu Posted December 13, 2012 Posted December 13, 2012 If the house is joint-owned, i hope you didn't leave it to her. Inform the husband, but make sure that you have undeniable proof first because they will both lie, especially the pregnant one.
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