Chico333 Posted December 13, 2012 Posted December 13, 2012 This is what I think is going to happen. She is either over it and that is why you have not gotten a followup text or she is thinking the exact same way you are right now (wanting you to beg for her) so, either way she is probably going to ignore you tomorrow. She might be thinking, "ok I'm going to see him tomorrow in class so, he will probably try and talk to me after class but I'll just act like I don't care." or she is just over it and will also still ignore you. This girl is no good for you and you need the drama gone. You want to keep the upper-hand because she is a b**** who will love any attention she gets. You want to ignore this and move on with your life. I know it's easier said than done and this is killing you but, you have to do it. She doesn't deserve any attention from you. Make her feel bad. If she isn't over it yet, it will really kill her if you two don't speak at all after class and she might cave and send you a text later in the day SOOOO BLOCK HER!
Author na49 Posted December 13, 2012 Author Posted December 13, 2012 You're right. I tell myself that if I'm going out of my way to try to spite her or get some sort of reaction out of her. I don't do it. Tomorrow is just another day, and I shouldn't treat it like something that it's not. I like to think that she's over it by now. She hasn't coming begging me for forgiveness or anything. She probably just wants to ease her guilt because it may finally be catching up to her. I act like she doesn't exist, so maybe that's bothering her. Once she gets me in the friend zone she can feel okay about everything and keep cheating and keep doing her thing, while having me as moral support. That's not happening though.
cavalier99 Posted December 13, 2012 Posted December 13, 2012 This is what I think is going to happen. She is either over it and that is why you have not gotten a followup text or she is thinking the exact same way you are right now (wanting you to beg for her) so, either way she is probably going to ignore you tomorrow. She might be thinking, "ok I'm going to see him tomorrow in class so, he will probably try and talk to me after class but I'll just act like I don't care." or she is just over it and will also still ignore you. This girl is no good for you and you need the drama gone. You want to keep the upper-hand because she is a b**** who will love any attention she gets. You want to ignore this and move on with your life. I know it's easier said than done and this is killing you but, you have to do it. She doesn't deserve any attention from you. Make her feel bad. If she isn't over it yet, it will really kill her if you two don't speak at all after class and she might cave and send you a text later in the day SOOOO BLOCK HER! Agreed. This is the IDEAL time to block her. Tell dad to do it 1st thing in the morning.
Author na49 Posted December 13, 2012 Author Posted December 13, 2012 It's so tough for me to go through with it but I know that I have to. I know that I will eventually. Plus, if she ever wanted to get in contact with me she'd find a way. She won't though, and that's fine, my ego can handle it. Today was just another example of why I need to block her number. I wake up and say "well let me just see if she bothered me.." nothing. "oh.." I know I'm the only one who can end this, I just need to go ahead and do it.
Chi townD Posted December 13, 2012 Posted December 13, 2012 Good luck with today! Let us know what happened! 1
Author na49 Posted December 13, 2012 Author Posted December 13, 2012 Well so much for any confrontation or anything. Although it would've been interesting, I'm happy nothing happened. I was just walking to class talking with a girl who is in my class about the final we were about to take. As we're walking, my ex is sitting outside of the class and looks at me. I looked at her briefly and kept walking. Not sure why she was sitting outside, maybe she figured I'd go to class alone and she could ask me. It didn't work like that though. Right after I went into the class and put my stuff down, there she comes right after. This is why I think maybe she was waiting for me to ask me to talk. It felt good to be talking to a girl in front of her, I know it'd drive her nuts when we were together lol. (meanwhile her talking to guys never bothered me. because I trusted her. how stupid could I be?) Well she comes into the classroom and is just complaining to everyone around her about how she might fail math. She might fail this class, she get her scholarship taken away. She's a Psych major and is like "I want to just help people, I don't know why I need to learn all of this stuff" Probably bitter because she's not doing well in that class either. I know it's not right that I don't wish her the best, and am happy when I hear she's failing or having trouble with school. but I am, especially considering she probably isn't wishing the best for me. If anyone was wondering, I think I did awesome on my final. I was done early, handed in my test, told my professor to have a nice holiday and I was gone. Time to enjoy my winter break. Hoping this won't be an issue when I go back to school next month. I don't see any reason it should. I'll have a whole other month to get over her. I know I need to keep busy though, sitting around doing nothing is when I think of her the most. Not expecting any texts, I'll be blocking the number soon. (don't take my word for it though lol) For some reason when I see her, I get so annoyed. Not sure why. 1
cavalier99 Posted December 13, 2012 Posted December 13, 2012 Ideal outcome! Bet your glad you didn't respond to her text and call! Good job
Author na49 Posted December 13, 2012 Author Posted December 13, 2012 I am happy that I didn't respond. Because based on what she was saying today, it makes me think that Monday she was just feeling stressed and wanted someone to talk to. Not that she ACTUALLY wanted to talk to ME but that I was just on the "only call in case of emergency" list, so she gave it a try.
LostOne1 Posted December 13, 2012 Posted December 13, 2012 Well man enjoy the holidays. For me I am looking at volunteering at some place for the holidays. For once in life I wanna GIVE back and do something for others. I always used to be spoiled for the holidays with family and getting nice things. But this yr I thought I'd do something different and help take part in some community place feeding and serving others. It will also let me meet new people as well. 1
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