Does wife want to cheat or am I crazy? Or both?

[GLDheart]

...doctors by their career seem to have an upper hand with women.

 

YEP. And being the boss doesn't hurt either. When My ex and I got together I constantly had new young women in thier young twenties coming to work for me. My ex was always terrified that I would nail one of them...

 

HA! If she only realized I was too busy spending my time averting my eyes from deliberate cleavage. My comapny had a MEGA strict policy and I had worked WAY too hard to throw it a way on a moments indulgeance.

[aston]

If a wife of mine said she wanted to have sex with someone else and was willing to do it, she'd soon be my x-wife.

 

Can't trust someone who says that. Even if she reversed herself if it angered you, it doesn't change the fact that she wants to and would have if you gave her the green light.

 

You are not crazy. She wants to cheat, but she was wanting your permission. I'd say if the opportunity ever came up where she thought you would NEVER find out, she screw another man.

 

You are in a tough spot. You have, IMO, an unfaithful woman, whether she has ever physically cheated or not.

Well in the wifes defense I don't think thoughts really equal be unfaithful. If so I guess most everyone would be considered unfaithful if we were judged on every thought we've ever had....

[turnera]

The point people are trying to make is that she is headed FOR the affair if you don't stop it.

[nofool4u]

Well in the wifes defense I don't think thoughts really equal be unfaithful. If so I guess most everyone would be considered unfaithful if we were judged on every thought we've ever had....

 

Uh, this goes beyond thoughts. She wants to do it and tried to get you to agree to it.

 

There is a difference between fantasy, and wanting to actually do it, and paving the way to make it happen.

 

You aren't here posting this story because she merely had a "thought".