meow89 Posted December 12, 2012 Posted December 12, 2012 So, I met a guy over 9 months ago. I've never met anyone I have instantly been attracted too, or had so much in common with. So we hung out, got very close. And thats when he decided to tell me he didnt want anything serious because he got too hurt in his last relationship. Not being born yesterday, It took me 2 months for him to admit it was because he wanted to sleep with other people, and just get drunk. I informed him, this was fine, but not to expect me to sleep with him/see him in that way anymore, becuase i wasnt a doormat, and I expected better of him. Seens as though he isnt a teenager anymore. So I went to a local club, he was all over me, I egnored it (not in a rude way, but he was drunk and I didnt want to fall for it) he then was all over the most awful girl ever, he even started making out with her and following me whilst he was doing it. His friends had to tell him to stop being a dick and eventually I left with his friends leaving him there. I deleted all evidence of him, being devastated he had that little respect for me. & the following day he turns up at my work, at midnight at the end of my shift, full of sorrys and regret. I couldnt speak to him i was so mad, he stayed at mine, nothing happened though as he informed me he had slept with this girl. Since then he was been texting constantly, ditched his friends on nights out to come and see me, spending all his free time with me. I dont know what to do, I mean has this made him realise he wants me? Am I a doormat? I dont know what to do. I feel torn in 2.
mammasita Posted December 12, 2012 Posted December 12, 2012 Ditch him. Don't fall for his sorrys and regret. If you take him back, you'll be saying to him that he can do whatever he wants and still have you to fall back on. 1
Illyana Posted December 13, 2012 Posted December 13, 2012 I agree. Ditch him. The problem for me is how can you trust him if he is out drinking without you? He proves he can't control himself and had no respect for you to make out with a girl in front of you. Instead of wasting the heartache and being with a possible drunk, find someone you don't have to be paranoid about going out with his friends without you.
GLDheart Posted December 15, 2012 Posted December 15, 2012 So, I met a guy... ...I expected better of him. ...he was all over me, I egnored it... ...he then was all over the most awful girl ever... ...he informed me he had slept with this girl.. ...I dont know what to do... I feel torn in 2. Here I trimmed it down for you. Re-read it again. It's much clearer when you boil it down.
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