Author kristi628 Posted December 13, 2012 Author Posted December 13, 2012 You should. And you should see yourself as an attractive, and wonderful girl, fully capable of finding a real man to treat you better. A pretty girl like you shouldn't have much to worry about in time. It does take a major shot to your self esteem. And I appreciate the confidence boost, especially when you have no idea what I look like
Toddbt12y1 Posted December 13, 2012 Posted December 13, 2012 It does take a major shot to your self esteem. And I appreciate the confidence boost, especially when you have no idea what I look like Always good to boost someone up when they feel low. Besides, I needn't look at you to know, I just know. That is also how you should feel. Be confident, and you will get a better person than you last as well. An attitude can be beautiful too, and make the person, as such yours.
livelife Posted December 13, 2012 Posted December 13, 2012 I think we could really get along. Your post I related to a lot.
Love Bites Posted December 13, 2012 Posted December 13, 2012 Lol I'm having something similar happen right now. My ex cheated on me with her new "knight in shining armor" (please!) He's a 24 year old alcoholic who she is trying to change. She's apparently loving life with whoever she's with now. Good luck with that. He'll cheat on her like she cheated on me and she'll be just as heart broken as I was. At least that's what I hope happens. If it does, it won't be my problem. When she needs a friend the most, she'll realize I was one of the only people who really gave a crap about her and I won't be there. She tweeted about me recently (I was told, i'm doing NC) saying that she did all this to teach me a lesson. I'm like what the **** kind of **** is this lol? I will so turn her down with the quickness if she comes back. And they will come back to us when **** gets real lol 1
Author kristi628 Posted December 13, 2012 Author Posted December 13, 2012 Last night wasn't as bad as I thought it would be. Spent time working out, reading, catching up with old friends and looking into grad schools. PLus the 12.12.12. concert was on TV so I watched a little of that. lol Had to tell friends I didn't want to hear about him either. They are so mad at him and still follow him on twitter just to see what he's up to. And then of course they tell me. But that's not something I need right now. Although, the tiny piece of info that was given did make me feel better. Apparently he was tweeting up a storm and not texting his girl back. She called him out on twitter said "I'm going to punch you for tweeting and not texting me back." and apparently didnt stop there. Psycho much? He can have fun with that drama.
Toddbt12y1 Posted December 13, 2012 Posted December 13, 2012 LOL he's just a loser. Can't take care of a woman. Probably bad in bed too haha. You're friends must story too ofc in order for you to recover. Good your night went well.
Author kristi628 Posted December 13, 2012 Author Posted December 13, 2012 We all had a long talk last night. Had one big venting session to get it all out one last time. I must say it was kind of fun. Some are still in shock because they all thought we would get married one day, some (the ones I would vent to whenever we fought) knew I should've left him a long time ago. This morning I woke up feeling a lot better than yesterday morning. I know reality is going to hit them both real soon. 1
Toddbt12y1 Posted December 13, 2012 Posted December 13, 2012 I cannot express how proud I am of you. You are doing wonderful! Vent keep venting it helps
Author kristi628 Posted December 13, 2012 Author Posted December 13, 2012 I cannot express how proud I am of you. You are doing wonderful! Vent keep venting it helps Be proud when I've gone months with NC. lol This is going to be a long process. And I know some days will be better than others. Today is one of the good ones. I feel like I've let go of a lot of weight. And I had a great nights sleep. I didnt wake up in the middle of the night panicking, trying to catch my breath. That alone was worth deleting twitter over.
Toddbt12y1 Posted December 13, 2012 Posted December 13, 2012 Wonderful then nothing like dropping dead weight
Author kristi628 Posted December 13, 2012 Author Posted December 13, 2012 I'm not sure if other people have tried this, but I spent some time last night finding inspirational and funny quotes on the internet. Wrote them out on my bathroom mirror so i can read them each morning. I must say, waking up to something funny or inspiring definitely put a big smile on my face. Yes, he's still on my mind almost every minute and yes I'm still bitter. But I'm taking this one day at a time. I sometimes wish I would just hear from him, but what good would that do? It's time to just move on with life. As much as that hurts.
Toddbt12y1 Posted December 13, 2012 Posted December 13, 2012 Yeah. I read inspirational quotes. Really any kind of quote. I don't write them down though...yeah take it slowly and do not worry over him.
yessy21 Posted December 13, 2012 Posted December 13, 2012 Girl let ME TELL YOU HOW TO HANDLE A TWIT. Give it a month. 1. Find a really hot guy friend, i dont care if you have to pick him up from a gay bar. 2. you will have someone take a picture of you and him playing around in a park or doing something fun. 3. you will post... this under the caption "I never knew love like this before." 4. a week later take another one and this one will say " the grass will always be greener on the other side." <333333 He knows u can see everything on twitter. trust me i can. i dont have fb anymore but i have a twitter. One way or another he will come across those and he wont be writing criptive messages anymore. I hate people that feed off of others misery.
Toddbt12y1 Posted December 13, 2012 Posted December 13, 2012 She could do that. But that would be playing games. The end result will still be bad, and no good will come of it. She just needs to maintain NC and keep off twitter. Which she did delete her twitter.
Author kristi628 Posted December 13, 2012 Author Posted December 13, 2012 I've thought about doing that. Really I have. When we first broke up I was tweeting about all the places I was going and going out with friends and having fun. None of it was true and he never even cared. Yes, he did read it though. Bc he would bring it up in conversations sometimes, but it didnt really effect him. Plus, I'm not into playing games. I refuse to stoop to his level. I dont need to make myself happy at the expense of others. Just not me. If he wants to do that (and we all dont know he's doing this on purpose to hurt me, he may just be happy) then it shows what kind of a person he really is.
Toddbt12y1 Posted December 13, 2012 Posted December 13, 2012 I've thought about doing that. Really I have. When we first broke up I was tweeting about all the places I was going and going out with friends and having fun. None of it was true and he never even cared. Yes, he did read it though. Bc he would bring it up in conversations sometimes, but it didnt really effect him. Plus, I'm not into playing games. I refuse to stoop to his level. I dont need to make myself happy at the expense of others. Just not me. If he wants to do that (and we all dont know he's doing this on purpose to hurt me, he may just be happy) then it shows what kind of a person he really is. This all the way! Great way to be mature cutie!
Author kristi628 Posted December 13, 2012 Author Posted December 13, 2012 This all the way! Great way to be mature cutie! Thank you very much! Feels good to know that you really are the better person.
Toddbt12y1 Posted December 13, 2012 Posted December 13, 2012 It always does. Like me I have revealing pics that could wreck my exes worldm I could have such fun using them against her...given all she has done to me. But I do not. I love her dearly, and it would just be wrong. I needn't get revenge.
Author kristi628 Posted December 13, 2012 Author Posted December 13, 2012 It always does. Like me I have revealing pics that could wreck my exes worldm I could have such fun using them against her...given all she has done to me. But I do not. I love her dearly, and it would just be wrong. I needn't get revenge. I thought it was best to destroy all pics and stuff of theirs?!? lol
Toddbt12y1 Posted December 13, 2012 Posted December 13, 2012 I thought it was best to destroy all pics and stuff of theirs?!? lol It is. I don't look at them LOL. They are sent to a backup email I use. Not on my phone. If you knew how evil my ex is you'd know why I kept them, LOL. Let us just say it's for emergency use. I also have all of our saved chats. The reasons for this is due to how much of a lying manipulator she is. She'd flip it around that I cheated on her. But the chat evidence and pic evidence says otherwise. I use it just in case I must clear my name. It has no emotional power over me. I have one pic where she says she loves some other Guy she cheated on me with. She posted on her fb she "loved (Guy)" draw an arrow to that and circled it. Sent it to me. We were still together LOL; she was suppose to be proving she wasn't cheating but LOL... She was "hacked" so she says. I have that one too. I know her and her evil ppl well enough to be prepared
Author kristi628 Posted December 13, 2012 Author Posted December 13, 2012 It is. I don't look at them LOL. They are sent to a backup email I use. Not on my phone. If you knew how evil my ex is you'd know why I kept them, LOL. Let us just say it's for emergency use. I also have all of our saved chats. The reasons for this is due to how much of a lying manipulator she is. She'd flip it around that I cheated on her. But the chat evidence and pic evidence says otherwise. I use it just in case I must clear my name. It has no emotional power over me. I have one pic where she says she loves some other Guy she cheated on me with. She posted on her fb she "loved (Guy)" draw an arrow to that and circled it. Sent it to me. We were still together LOL; she was suppose to be proving she wasn't cheating but LOL... She was "hacked" so she says. I have that one too. I know her and her evil ppl well enough to be prepared Ahhh I see. Very clever. The day he told me he cheated I deleted his texts, emails and pictures. I think they might be backed up on my computer but I havent checked, nor do I want to. Not ready to go back down memory lane just yet.
Toddbt12y1 Posted December 13, 2012 Posted December 13, 2012 Ahhh I see. Very clever. The day he told me he cheated I deleted his texts, emails and pictures. I think they might be backed up on my computer but I havent checked, nor do I want to. Not ready to go back down memory lane just yet. You needn't go there. I only saves them because I know what to expect from her. She's not a sweetheart like she believes LOL. I don't even look at them to be honest. I just keep em invade if I looked at them I'd be pissed LOL.
Author kristi628 Posted December 13, 2012 Author Posted December 13, 2012 I saved one text, or I took a pic of it. He was alluding to a threat and in case he made any more I was going to keep track.
Toddbt12y1 Posted December 13, 2012 Posted December 13, 2012 I saved one text, or I took a pic of it. He was alluding to a threat and in case he made any more I was going to keep track. Now that you'd wanna keep! Smart thinking. What a coward though.
Author kristi628 Posted December 13, 2012 Author Posted December 13, 2012 AND....apparently they are facebook official....and NOT because I looked. He is blocked. But bc friends who i havent talked to in a while saw that they put it on there just yesterday and they had no idea we even broke up. Great. My day just got a little less sunny.
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