Touch_of_Naughtiness Posted August 25, 2004 Posted August 25, 2004 Originally posted by UCFKevin You must be from here. People who are from here are very defensive of Los Angeles when the whole narcissism aspect is brought up. I'd say there are more people in Hollywood who are full of themselves than there are in, say, Hackensack, New Jersey. Like I said before, though, there are plenty of good people here. But you shouldn't act like there aren't the people who fit the complete stereotype. It still seems like a stereotype to me. And FYI I never said there are no people here that fit the stereotype, that would be plain stupid of me to even try to make such a statement! I know that Hollywood is not made up of happy faces and sociable people, just like any other place! Of course that there has to be a diverse variety of people. And yes I am from Hollywood, that's exactly why I feel that I know how people are here. If not I would not even comment on it.
Author UCFKevin Posted August 25, 2004 Author Posted August 25, 2004 Stereotypes exist for a reason. A damn good friend of mine is every bit a very stereotypical Jew. To the T. There's truth in them, you see, stereotypes.
SoleMate Posted August 25, 2004 Posted August 25, 2004 UCFKevin, you are so NOT gay!!!! How can women think that??? Or men??? Maybe you are too well groomed? Perhaps try dressing down just a tad... Yes, walk around smiling. Just a mild, faint smile. Look humble. You're already so gorgeous that people will be making assumptions based on your looks, since they don't know you like we do. I happen to know that you are close to being the ultimate hetero male. Calif folks can be quite superficial. Surface is all. It is the state of beach volleyball and liposuction.
Author UCFKevin Posted August 25, 2004 Author Posted August 25, 2004 Oh, if only you knew me further, I'd be far from the ultimate male.
tokyo Posted August 25, 2004 Posted August 25, 2004 Originally posted by UCFKevin Oh, if only you knew me further, I'd be far from the ultimate male. I think so, too Just joking
Author UCFKevin Posted August 25, 2004 Author Posted August 25, 2004 A guy who still laughs at farts cannot be the ultimate hetero male.
Papillon Posted August 25, 2004 Posted August 25, 2004 So she thought you were stuck up? Maybe it was a come-on, who knows? Besides - do you really care what one rude person thinks? C'mawn, dude. You know you can knock'em dead, so why worry?
tokyo Posted August 25, 2004 Posted August 25, 2004 Originally posted by UCFKevin A guy who still laughs at farts cannot be the ultimate hetero male. The ultimate hetero male would be a Neandertaler who probably would appreciate a good joke
beautiful Posted August 25, 2004 Posted August 25, 2004 I hate to say it but even your post seems"stuck up". Be yourself always and smile a lot, most of all be sincere. People feel attracted to people being themselves and people that are happy and open and have a healthy self esteem. Stuck up is a learned behavior. So if you think you are stuck up................change it. If you like yourself, do not worry what others say! P.S. Looks have nothing to do with being stuck up! You look to me like you an average looking guy, so maybe it takes is a little adjustment on your mental part.
Touch_of_Naughtiness Posted August 25, 2004 Posted August 25, 2004 Originally posted by beautiful I hate to say it but even your post seems"stuck up". Be yourself always and smile a lot, most of all be sincere. People feel attracted to people being themselves and people that are happy and open and have a healthy self esteem. Stuck up is a learned behavior. So if you think you are stuck up................change it. If you like yourself, do not worry what others say! P.S. Looks have nothing to do with being stuck up! You look to me like you an average looking guy, so maybe it takes is a little adjustment on your mental part. I totally agree.
Touch_of_Naughtiness Posted August 25, 2004 Posted August 25, 2004 Originally posted by UCFKevin Stereotypes exist for a reason. A damn good friend of mine is every bit a very stereotypical Jew. To the T. There's truth in them, you see, stereotypes. Yeah, stereotypes exist to exaggerate things and to categorize people or places by actions or attitudes of just a few .
moimeme Posted August 26, 2004 Posted August 26, 2004 See, Kevin? How people make judgements of people? Based on one picture! In an avatar!!!!! Fortunately, someone as judgmental as that won't say 'hi' to you, saving you the hassle of having to deal with people like that
Naive Posted August 26, 2004 Posted August 26, 2004 Originally posted by beautiful I hate to say it but even your post seems"stuck up". Be yourself always and smile a lot, most of all be sincere. People feel attracted to people being themselves and people that are happy and open and have a healthy self esteem. Stuck up is a learned behavior. So if you think you are stuck up................change it. If you like yourself, do not worry what others say! P.S. Looks have nothing to do with being stuck up! You look to me like you an average looking guy, so maybe it takes is a little adjustment on your mental part. I think she was referring to the way he comes across in his posts not his avatar. She did mention that he looks like an average looking guy, which is true, and I do not think it should be found offensive! It's probably just the way he expresses himself. He did seem a bit negative from the responses he gave to touch of naughtiness. He seemed very defensive. like if he HAS TO BE right. Also a bit hostile. But that's just my perception of him from this post. Obviously you can't judge someone fairly unless you know that person well.
Author UCFKevin Posted August 26, 2004 Author Posted August 26, 2004 I think it's funny that you have to point out that you agree that I'm a merely average looking guy. What an incredibly odd thing to do. That's like going up to someone and saying, "Wow, you're plain looking!" Anyway, about the Touch of Whatever, I find it difficult to talk to people about their hometown, specifically Hollywood or LA and talk about some of the crappy people that live there because THEY get super defensive, so how the hell can I not get defensive too when it's thrown back at me? And as for me seeming stuck up in my posts, no. I'm not stuck up. I'm just a confident guy. And there is a world of difference between the two.
Naive Posted August 26, 2004 Posted August 26, 2004 Originally posted by UCFKevin I think it's funny that you have to point out that you agree that I'm a merely average looking guy. What an incredibly odd thing to do. That's like going up to someone and saying, "Wow, you're plain looking!" Touchy, touchy are we? If I agreed it's only because someone mentioned it and it's the truth. I did not think that it was such a big deal. I definitely would not go around saying, "Wow you are plain looking" or "Wow, you are an average looking guy". You do not have to agree with what other people say, but at least have respect for it. If my comment was offensive to you in any way I do apologize, but I am not the person to lie and say things that are not true. I tend to say what I feel. I could not say you are gorgeous you know or argue with what she posted if I truly believe it! You are handsome though, hope that makes you feel better. I am sure that there are a lot of people that find me an average girl or not attractive at all, I'm sure not going to get offended by it. To each their own.
savethedrama4allama Posted August 26, 2004 Posted August 26, 2004 Kevin has never set fire to my home or abused my housepets. He's an alright dude.
Fayebelle Posted August 26, 2004 Posted August 26, 2004 Rock the vote people- Kev for nice guy of the week!
Author UCFKevin Posted August 26, 2004 Author Posted August 26, 2004 I wasn't offended by you saying I'm average looking, I know very well that not everyone has the same taste, I just found it humorous that you would go out of your way to agree with that statement. Seemed kinda petty, to be honest. And thanks for the vote of confidence, folks.
MelWell Posted August 26, 2004 Posted August 26, 2004 Well, to say the least - you are a good looking fella. I've noticed that when you're good looking, alot of people say that 'you're stuck up'. Aahhh ho-hum they're just jealous....
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