NeeN Posted December 12, 2012 Posted December 12, 2012 So we did brweak up, i feel i have been through the worst. I blocked my ex from all social media and after NC for a month and a half. I get a phone call at 02h30 asking me if i would make him coffee!! and when i told him he could not do this, he starts bringing up my son and telling me im keeping my son from him. A week later I get an email from him telling him to pay him back for the holiday tickets he had bought on his credit card when we were going to go on holiday together. (My son and i are still going on that trip.), if i did not pay him back by the 19th he would cancel our tickets and get a full refund on his money. I have no problem with that as i was always going to pay him back, so instead i told him to get his refund rather. I think he was taken a back with that as he sent me 2 follow up emails asking me if im sure. I recently found out that he has photos of him and some woman plastered all over his facebook. I dont know what to do really... Getting back together is not an option, at all. But wow, has the break up hit home. I do miss him... But the i think, wow, its only been a month and a half and hes already seeing someone else. I couldnt have meant much anyway. Anyway.... So if anyone has some insight on his behaviour and what it means id be greatful.
The other women Posted December 12, 2012 Posted December 12, 2012 It seems to me he looks at it as though you've hurt him and hes doing anything to hurt you back (chikdish? Yes!) what hes doing is wrong but as long as you encourage him to see your son the issue should fade out......... maybe the reason this new girl bugs you is because you do care...... I broke up with my finance andhe rubbef his ex in my face and usef hus daughter against me i.e she wants something just so hed have an excuse to see me, ifyou dont play into it and do whats best for your son things will sort themselves out Good luck hun and big hugs xx
flitzanu Posted December 12, 2012 Posted December 12, 2012 So we did brweak up, i feel i have been through the worst. I blocked my ex from all social media and after NC for a month and a half. I get a phone call at 02h30 asking me if i would make him coffee!! and when i told him he could not do this, he starts bringing up my son and telling me im keeping my son from him. A week later I get an email from him telling him to pay him back for the holiday tickets he had bought on his credit card when we were going to go on holiday together. (My son and i are still going on that trip.), if i did not pay him back by the 19th he would cancel our tickets and get a full refund on his money. I have no problem with that as i was always going to pay him back, so instead i told him to get his refund rather. I think he was taken a back with that as he sent me 2 follow up emails asking me if im sure. I recently found out that he has photos of him and some woman plastered all over his facebook. I dont know what to do really... Getting back together is not an option, at all. But wow, has the break up hit home. I do miss him... But the i think, wow, its only been a month and a half and hes already seeing someone else. I couldnt have meant much anyway. Anyway.... So if anyone has some insight on his behaviour and what it means id be greatful. guessing you dumped him since you sound calm and he sounds nutso... he's just trying to get reaction and redemption by any means necessary. honestly, AS A GUY, i've done this immature crap too. and honestly, you're better off simply ignoring it, that way it can't keep happening. no contact means no contact, and the more you answer or reply, the more he can keep saying stupid crap to you.
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