Davidnewday Posted December 12, 2012 Posted December 12, 2012 i did alot for my ex of one year, she was very selfish and mean to people. im just trying to dicide what to do. basicly i said she had to leave. she got angry and cheated on me with a guy she works with, so i ended it, shes been teeling the few freinds she has that she ended it which im anoyed about. she said that she still wants to be freinds but im not sure. i think its just to have me as a back up plan. she still has the contract phone i got for her (she pays the bill) and im still frends with her brother on facebook. i know i carnt go back with her but it would make me feel better for her to be honest and apologise for how she treated me and my apartment after i took her in. when her boss kicked her out before me, and her stepdad before them i loved her dearly and always thort she was the preetyest girl on the planet. the last time i saw her we had a talk and she said call me, you always do. i said i wont and to call me in january please help i think she is in denial and just want her to realise what she has lost a caring loving suportive boyfreind.should i do no contact?? please help. david.
CptSaveAho Posted December 12, 2012 Posted December 12, 2012 (edited) The only way she will ever realize what she lost is if she actually LOSES it. You don't have to tell her anything, you dont talk to her anymore, you move on with your life and you let her figure it out on her own Props for ending the relationship though, it doesnt matter what she tells others, shes a coward and people figure things out on their own. If she does apologize to you, its not going to be for a LONG time, and it wont actually help you in moving on Edited December 12, 2012 by CptSaveAho
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