Navajo46 Posted December 12, 2012 Posted December 12, 2012 After 6 years we broke up two weeks ago. Things were good, we told each other we loved each other all the time etc. She started getting distant a few weeks ago so I called her out on it and she said that she loved me like a friend and that her and her boss who is married and has 2 kids and is older have expressed interest in each other. She said they have something that we don't... a spark. I got mad and told her to get her stuff out etc. The next day she cried and said she doesn't know what she is doing and she is still in shock etc. She came to get her stuff last week and cried and said it was harder than she thought it was going to be and asked to stay friends and talk once a week. I said hell no. She asked again before she left and I again said no and this was it. Then yesterday, the day after my birthday she sends me a text that says "Just wanted to wish you a happy belated birthday. Wanted to yesterday but didn't think it was appropriate. Changed my mind today, so happy birthday". What?!: I just thought it was a weird text... almost cryptic, and now I am looking for meaning behind it like an idiot. And to make it worse her 16 year old son texted me earlier that said "I miss having a father"... that hit me the worst. I cried after seeing that. I am kind of a mess right now, but have been treated so badly, I need ways to cope. I did text her just a simple thanks very much. Any opinions.
EgoJoe Posted December 14, 2012 Posted December 14, 2012 Block block blockity block block block. That was emotional terrorism. You're not going to help raise her kid while she boinks some other dude she thinks is higher status. Next her ass in all ways like you've started to.
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