livelife Posted December 12, 2012 Posted December 12, 2012 I met up with my ex just an hour ago to get something of mine. I was imagining him putting it in the mailbox, but he told me to just walk in. I come in, was kinda to myself, (He started recently talking to a girl that lives in Alabama that he met over Twitter just a week ago and she has stayed with him...) And we jsut talked for about 40 minutes. I left, and he texted me " Have a good night (nickname) he gave me. Not like a pet name, just a funny nickname. He hasn't told me to have a good night in such a long time honestly, and hasn't called me that nickname in a while. Do I respond to that text? He honestly hurt me so bad, I miss him and we had a great relationship, so I want him to work on it. But I don't want to be rude and ignore that. Thoughts?
judithlove Posted December 12, 2012 Posted December 12, 2012 if he wanted you he wouldnt be with someone right now and he would of said something elier. just have thanks have a great one 2. or ignor it up 2 you just dont open a conversation
Author livelife Posted December 12, 2012 Author Posted December 12, 2012 Thats the thing, I stalked their twitter earlier and it looks like they aren't talking anymore. I can't decide on if I should reply or not.
Author livelife Posted December 12, 2012 Author Posted December 12, 2012 I decided to reply. "Thanks you too" Short and sweet. Replying to not be rude, but wasn't giving into anything. he hurt me so bad. Back to NC.
LostOne1 Posted December 12, 2012 Posted December 12, 2012 I decided to reply. "Thanks you too" Short and sweet. Replying to not be rude, but wasn't giving into anything. he hurt me so bad. Back to NC. No point in wondering. If he REALLY wanted you back he would tell you straight up and fight for you. So at this point he doesn't seem interested and you should go NC to move on and heal.
Author livelife Posted December 12, 2012 Author Posted December 12, 2012 I am. I have already started the healing process and I won't lie this has set me back a little. I just hope to come back strong tomorrow.
judithlove Posted December 12, 2012 Posted December 12, 2012 just ignor him now. you really dont want to be his side B***. so when he wants you he can speakto you and when he doesnt he wont !! you really need to ove on and to do that go NC at all, even if he texts you ignor it and he will get the messege
shahjahan Posted December 12, 2012 Posted December 12, 2012 I know what it feels like... it's more difficult when they try to be nice and kind to you, saying all those cute things... the same thing has happened to me and I really don't know what to think about it. But yes, every interaction is painful, so perhaps better avoid it altogether.
Author livelife Posted December 13, 2012 Author Posted December 13, 2012 It really is. You think you miss them and that talking/seeing them will help you but it doesn't It sets you so far off from where you were. Today wasn't too bad! I don't feel upset
Samilia Posted December 13, 2012 Posted December 13, 2012 I met up with my ex just an hour ago to get something of mine. I was imagining him putting it in the mailbox, but he told me to just walk in. I come in, was kinda to myself, (He started recently talking to a girl that lives in Alabama that he met over Twitter just a week ago and she has stayed with him...) And we jsut talked for about 40 minutes. I left, and he texted me " Have a good night (nickname) he gave me. Not like a pet name, just a funny nickname. He hasn't told me to have a good night in such a long time honestly, and hasn't called me that nickname in a while. Do I respond to that text? He honestly hurt me so bad, I miss him and we had a great relationship, so I want him to work on it. But I don't want to be rude and ignore that. Thoughts? No no no.. he didn't say "lets talk more" or "let's have drinks", so no. Until, if, he wants to be serious, don't waste your energy and feelings on this.
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