MarieNn Posted December 12, 2012 Posted December 12, 2012 Okay, so here's the deal. About a month ago, I re-connected with a guy that I knew during college. We knew of each other back then and when he mentioned on social media going out for a drink, I jokingly told him to hit me up when/if he did. Well...he actually did! It was totally one of those situations where I meant it completely innocently and didn't forsee any kind of follow-up on his part. But I went with the flow. We exchanged numbers and that first week it didn't pan out. The next week, however, he hit me up and let me know he had found this cool place that has awesome drinks and to let him know when I was free so we could go. Cool. So, we end up going that following weekend. It was supposed to be us originally, but then at the last minute, some of his fraternity brothers came into town and others came into the picture. It was a fun, fun night. We all drank, smoked a little hookah and laughed hysterically at a dive bar with an awful cover band. We all crashed at his place and somehow, I ended up in his room. We started talking, held hands and he told me how he could completely see through the hardened, **** talking persona I project. I laughed and he was loading on his observations of me that day versus what he thought of me before...and then we started full-on kissing. It was passionate and I knew it was leading somewhere that I wasn't ready to go to so, I stopped him. One of his friends got sit at that moment, so he dashed off to get him situated. I passed out until the morning. I went home and let the event of that night torture me for nearly a week until I had to ask what the hell happened and why. I asked if we were going to continue to pretend the kiss and talk never happened and he said that he hadn't given it that much thought beyond thinking that the kiss broke the ice between us and that moment gave him a glimpse of the real me and to ignore all the shi talking I do. Maybe I'm slightly pessimistic but him saying that he us kissing was "breaking the ice" means next to nothing to me. I'm entitled to think that it was his way of saying it was just something that happened that didn't hold any weight. Am I right in making this assumption?
Divasu Posted December 12, 2012 Posted December 12, 2012 I'm entitled to think that it was his way of saying it was just something that happened that didn't hold any weight. Am I right in making this assumption? Yes, I believe that you are correct.
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