MoveAlong_13 Posted December 12, 2012 Posted December 12, 2012 Hi everyone This is my first ever post here....here goes... So over the last few months I keep finding myself Googling things I've been feeling towards my ex...just looking for some evidence that I'm not alone in feeling the way I have been, and this website kept coming up. I had a browse around a few threads and it's amazing how much I find myself relating to some of the other people on here. My intention here was to explain my situation just for venting purposes. I feel like it's getting to the stage where my friends and family are getting more and more uncomfortable when I bring him up, so I thought it might be a good idea to express these things elsewhere... Anyway, I started typing and realised I would be sitting here all night trying to do that and most likely, any person reading it would be bored to tears before the end. So for now, I just want to say hello and that anyone who is right now trying to get over a break up from a long-term relationship which made no sense, and still doesn't to this day...you're not alone. Seriously. Never been so blind-sided and bewildered in my life. I still feel bizarre referring to this guy as my "ex"....and it's been over four months. Anyway, if anyone has actually read this...thank you and I hope you are finding the will to keep your head up and keep going...until next time
Toddbt12y1 Posted December 12, 2012 Posted December 12, 2012 Welcome! That is very nice of you to wish everyone well! No, I was not bored. Feel free to share anytime will be glad to read it and respond
bitterruin Posted December 12, 2012 Posted December 12, 2012 Welcome! That is very nice of you to wish everyone well! No, I was not bored. Feel free to share anytime will be glad to read it and respond Agreed. Looking forward to your story.
Buns Posted December 12, 2012 Posted December 12, 2012 Hello Glad you popped in for a chat, I'm also lookign forward to your story !
Cutiepie1976 Posted December 12, 2012 Posted December 12, 2012 Hi there! Some breakups are tough. I suspect most of us landed here because of a broken heart. I found the site because a friend mentioned it. Always wondered how others came across the site.
Sari Posted December 12, 2012 Posted December 12, 2012 (edited) Sometimes it's cathartic to post your story even if it is a bit long-winded and you feel like everyone will be asleep by the end! I posted mine yesterday and although it was painful, I think it was therapeutic. Plus some very kind people responded. My ex also seemingly left me for no reason, completely out of the blue, although he blames it on being too hurt in the past. He also told me he's a commitment phobe fairly early on, if only I'd listened Edited December 12, 2012 by Sari
Phanpooh Posted December 15, 2012 Posted December 15, 2012 Yesterday, i was "acidently" typing my ex name on google. And the first thing i saw, my ex kiss her bf in an "art" picture. Suddenly, i smiled and happy for myself to not be in that pictures. They seem happy ever after and i could keep living my own life. More than 1y BU, plus 11m NC and i'm the same guy 3y ago, i think that doesn't matter who i was with, who tried to change me, what happened. I just don't really need her. Exactly, i knew we would go nowhere if we r still together. I used to wish for 1 more night and now i just don't care. I think best way to cope is just stop caring and admit that we all change time by time. Thank you loveshackers for helping me pass a rough chapter in my life...
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