weylyniw Posted December 12, 2012 Posted December 12, 2012 My boyfriend of 3 years and I recently parted ways. While we both still loved one another, our lives were going in different directions and we had opposing life goals. So we amicably parted, and BF pleaded to remain friends. "All I want to do is still be a part of your life." In spite of my better judgement, I relented. BF and I did have a wonderful foundation of friendship. We still call and talk, daily. We have been broken up for almost 2 months. He seems hunky dory. I still struggle sometimes. We discussed whether or not we would talk about our future dating lives and agreed, if we were "real" friends then we would. So I get asked out on a date and bring it up to BF. He is "excited" for me. I asked again if he *really* wanted to talk about this, as it seems weird and kind of cruel for me to discussing this with a recently parted ex. He disagreed and admits he feels no jealousy or pain over it, and is happy to talk about my date(s) if I am. It seems really strange to me. He acts like I'm making a big deal out of nothing. Am I?
geegirl Posted December 12, 2012 Posted December 12, 2012 I believe you are. A little affected that he's not reacting, maybe? You were hoping he'd be jealous or in some way moved by it? If he's telling you he is fine, accept it. Besides, you both agreed to divulge your dating escapades.
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