j8e20 Posted December 12, 2012 Posted December 12, 2012 I started dating someone 3 months ago. We were going great for the first 2 months and I noticed some distance between us. I know a large part of that was I started to fall for her and said things that scared her. I know I pushed and seemed a bit needy. Last Thursday she broke up with me via email. In the email it stated that I wasn't the one for her. It brought up some of the items listed above that I did. I was very frustrated and I still am. We were great and saw each other so much, then it stopped. I really like this girl and I want her back in my life. I haven't not talked to her since Friday morning. I slipped and sent her an email today, but know I can't contact her anymore. Below is the email I sent. Does anyone have any ideas what I can do to win her back? [FONT=Times New Roman][sIZE=3][/sIZE][/FONT] [sIZE=3][FONT=Calibri]I went fishing this past weekend. I haven't done that ina long time. While out there I realized something, this is my "me"time. Then, I reflected back on how I acted with you and realized that I wasneglecting you of that. I have always been a big advocate of that and I'm notsure what i was thinking. Whether traveling, with friends or doing stuff onyour own. I didn't respect that. We have both been single for a long time andthat puts pressure on both parties.[/FONT][/sIZE] [FONT=Times New Roman][sIZE=3][/sIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Calibri][sIZE=3] [/sIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Times New Roman][sIZE=3][/sIZE][/FONT] [sIZE=3][FONT=Calibri]I also looked back on my other actions. For some reason,I was a ****ing train wreck. I smothered the **** out of you, that is definetlynot me. I jumped off the building and told you things that scared the **** outof you, as well it would me too. I had a nice discussion with my mom and shewas upset at me. She told me that I have never been that way towards anyone andcalled me a dumb ass. All she knows about you is what she has heard from myson. I was acting needy and I am not a needy person. I didn't need you in mylife, I wanted you in my life.[/FONT][/sIZE] [FONT=Times New Roman][sIZE=3][/sIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Calibri][sIZE=3] [/sIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Times New Roman][sIZE=3][/sIZE][/FONT] [sIZE=3][FONT=Calibri]I can't really tell you what caused me to act this way.The way I was in the begining, that is me. One of my biggest mistakes wasnot taking you on a million dates. Do I like you, definetly. Did I enjoy doingthings with you, without a doubt. I was very comfortable with you and that isimportant to me. You can say I deserve better, but it's hard to top Best. [/FONT][/sIZE] [FONT=Times New Roman][sIZE=3][/sIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Calibri][sIZE=3] [/sIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Times New Roman][sIZE=3][/sIZE][/FONT] [sIZE=3][FONT=Calibri]Me[/FONT][/sIZE] [FONT=Times New Roman][sIZE=3][/sIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Calibri][sIZE=3] [/sIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Times New Roman][sIZE=3][/sIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Calibri][sIZE=3] [/sIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Times New Roman][sIZE=3][/sIZE][/FONT] [sIZE=3][FONT=Calibri]PS. I sent this to th Ellen Show[/FONT][/sIZE] [FONT=Times New Roman][sIZE=3][/sIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Calibri][sIZE=3] [/sIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Times New Roman][sIZE=3][/sIZE][/FONT] [sIZE=3][FONT=Calibri]Dear Ellen,[/FONT][/sIZE] [FONT=Times New Roman][sIZE=3][/sIZE][/FONT] [sIZE=3][FONT=Calibri]The purpose for this email is to introduce you towonderful person. Her name is ***** ****. She works in ***** as a directorfor non-profit organization that provides health care to the less fortunate.She works terribly hard and takes on many task within the organization. Alongwith her heavy work load, she also plays the role of a single mother to aprecious 4 year old daughter. She runs marathons, as well constantly gives backto the community. She works so hard and so much, that she has very little timeto rest. I have never met anyone like her in my life. Knowing her has changedmy life and made me a better person.[/FONT][/sIZE] [FONT=Times New Roman][sIZE=3][/sIZE][/FONT] [sIZE=3][FONT=Calibri] [/FONT][/sIZE] [FONT=Times New Roman][sIZE=3][/sIZE][/FONT] [sIZE=3][FONT=Calibri]One night while talking, she mentioned that one of herdreams was sit down and meet you. I know that is asking for a lot. I just knowthat she has helped others in the ****** area obtain their dreams and with thetwinkle of one star, maybe she can meet her dream. If you could make her dreama reality, my Christmas wish would come true.[/FONT][/sIZE] [FONT=Times New Roman][sIZE=3][/sIZE][/FONT] [sIZE=3][FONT=Calibri]Thank you,[/FONT][/sIZE] [FONT=Times New Roman][sIZE=3][/sIZE][/FONT]
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