amaysngrace Posted December 12, 2012 Posted December 12, 2012 My cousin married a guy who is now bald, short and middle aged. They have great sons who will probably be bald, short and middle aged one day. They have a summer house near where I live and my cousin bitches that their boys are hooking up a lot but I told her that they're loverboys...what does she expect? The tallest one is maybe 5'7". Still they get lots of lovin. If anybody thinks that their hair or their height is holding them back then yes! you're a whiner. 2
Robert Z Posted December 12, 2012 Posted December 12, 2012 Thawholigan, you do not know what I had to go through. I had to talk to hundreds of girls and asked out 45 of them. All rejected me. I am trying online dating, but no one will date a guy my height, and I mean no one. I get emails from the dating sight saying that they cant find a match for me, and I live in a big city. Here, a dating site for short people .: Join Today For Premium Access Anyone have a dating site for guys who like hookers?
xxoo Posted December 12, 2012 Posted December 12, 2012 My cousin married a guy who is now bald, short and middle aged. They have great sons who will probably be bald, short and middle aged one day. They have a summer house near where I live and my cousin bitches that their boys are hooking up a lot but I told her that they're loverboys...what does she expect? The tallest one is maybe 5'7". Still they get lots of lovin. If anybody thinks that their hair or their height is holding them back then yes! you're a whiner. Bald, short, and middle-aged doesn't mean he can't rock your world! 1
Eternal Sunshine Posted December 12, 2012 Posted December 12, 2012 Bald, short, and middle-aged doesn't mean he can't rock your world! If he would love me and didn't cheat, I would have no problem with it.... 1
Mumbles Posted December 12, 2012 Posted December 12, 2012 It is typical of a short, bald, old man. They are typically looking for much younger beautiful women. They prefer to buy an attractive young woman who is in a difficult financial situation than to build a R with a woman who is not young and beautiful. I don't know how fair this comment is in reality. Its a bit of a stereotypical response to the stereotypical "mail order bride" type debate. I reckon there might be a useful rule-of-thumb type thing going on where relationships have to be balanced. Generally speaking, people of roughly equal 'beauty' (whatever that really means to an individual) with all other things being equal, tend to pair up. Where there in an imbalance in this perception, the equation must be, and is, balanced in other ways. Do we here, commenting from the peanut gallery, really think badly of say ... Donald Trump for marrying Melania Knauss after Ivana? She was (is) young and beautiful. Should Donald be lambasted for that because he didn't go after a women who wasn't young and beautiful? Whats our opinion of Melania? Do we think she would have married Donald if he'd been broke? Maybe ... I have no idea honestly, but without knowing them and utilising the stereotype we like to roll out ... seems unlikely. So, a man, or a woman, past their best, or even _at_ their best, but who might struggle in their local surroundings to find the mate they want should just suck it up and martyr themselves to whomever is available??? I'm certainly not advocating the 'buying' of anyone ... but can't two unequals come together to form a complete equation? Where I'm from, multi racial parings between people who are not only of different race but are obviously from different birth cultures are becoming increasingly common, its got to the point where you don't even notice any more. Yes, sure, its mainly local men with what appears to be probably foreign born partners, but there are local women in the same boat, just fewer observable numbers of them. In any event, the couples present to the world as not unhappy ... why should I care enough to pidgeonhole them with a stereotypical label?
Mumbles Posted December 12, 2012 Posted December 12, 2012 Anyone have a dating site for guys who like hookers? Ha!! Love it.
amaysngrace Posted December 12, 2012 Posted December 12, 2012 Bald, short, and middle-aged doesn't mean he can't rock your world! Here's one of their sons: 1
Radu Posted December 12, 2012 Posted December 12, 2012 Haha. We are supposed to overlook shortness, fatness, baldness and old age. Yet those men still want young, thin and pretty wife. So don't overlook them, i know i don't overlook grouchy attitude, bulldog faces and fatness.
Eternal Sunshine Posted December 12, 2012 Posted December 12, 2012 (edited) So don't overlook them, i know i don't overlook grouchy attitude, bulldog faces and fatness. oh c'mon, nothing wrong with a bulldog face https://www.google.com.au/search?num=10&hl=en&authuser=0&site=imghp&tbm=isch&source=hp&biw=1138&bih=525&q=bulldog+face&oq=bulldog+face&gs_l=img.3..0l8j0i5l2.3194.6465.0.6644.12.11.0.1.1.0.237.1538.3j2j5.10.0...0.0...1ac.1.7v4wwLbxY-4 Edited December 12, 2012 by Eternal Sunshine
sabre80 Posted December 12, 2012 Posted December 12, 2012 At least men can have the option to buy a bride. I wish I could buy a young, hot husband that will learn to love me or at least pretend to :/ You be my suga' mamma and I won't have to pretend.
kaylan Posted December 12, 2012 Posted December 12, 2012 (edited) WTF guys, Wholigan should give you hope, not this jealousy BS. Seriously, posting thread after thread drowning in self pity, is only keeping you down and obsessive - sucking away at little self-confidence you have left. It's a downward spiral. I am one of the biggest female whiners so I should know. This exactly. I dont know why people keep trying to put ThaWholigan down. Homeboy was always positive and honest about his prior experiences in dating. Now he has made some strong strides in terms of getting his feet wet (amongst other things:laugh:) Id say he recent success gives him the right to give advice. Its advice based on fresh experiences too...so all the better. Why shame him for his past? And why shame me for his past? (a couple of posters have mixed us up before lolol) Point being, people should see him as an inspiration. If a guy in his 20s, who was a virgin and has autism, can turn his dating life around, then so can you. Nevermind the fact that autistic people arent the most super social bunch, so ThaWholigan should REALLY inspire you when you consider everything. Edited December 12, 2012 by kaylan 1
EasyHeart Posted December 12, 2012 Posted December 12, 2012 Why is everyone assuming that the Thai wife was a "mail order bride"? I dated a Thai woman several years back. Her father was very wealthy and she was one of the most spoiled, high-maintenance women I've ever met. She had many Thai friends and they were very similar. (OTH, they were also ridiculously beautiful. ) All of them dated exclusively white men. Not everyone from outside the US is a mail-order bride. (And I can say from personal experience that not all short, bald, old men are desperate ) Oh, and I love ThaWholigan (no homo).
USMCHokie Posted December 12, 2012 Posted December 12, 2012 This exactly. I dont know why people keep trying to put ThaWholigan down. Homeboy was always positive and honest about his prior experiences in dating. Now he has made some strong strides in terms of getting his feet wet (amongst other things:laugh:) Id say he recent success gives him the right to give advice. Its advice based on fresh experiences too...so all the better. Why shame him for his past? And why shame me for his past? (a couple of posters have mixed us up before lolol) Point being, people should see him as an inspiration. If a guy in his 20s, who was a virgin and has autism, can turn his dating life around, then so can you. Nevermind the fact that autistic people arent the most super social bunch, so ThaWholigan should REALLY inspire you when you consider everything. On point. Perhaps it is my limited exposure to his posts over the past couple months combined with my reading of his posts with limited context primarily in "whining threads" which interest me most that colors my views of his recent attitude changes. I think he's got it going on just fine and am very happy for him. I was just shocked at how often he blasted people for what he considered "whining," especially when you take into account how much sex he's suddenly having now... And besides, I'm still angry.
SJC2008 Posted December 12, 2012 Posted December 12, 2012 This exactly. I dont know why people keep trying to put ThaWholigan down. Homeboy was always positive and honest about his prior experiences in dating. Now he has made some strong strides in terms of getting his feet wet (amongst other things:laugh:) Id say he recent success gives him the right to give advice. Its advice based on fresh experiences too...so all the better. Why shame him for his past? And why shame me for his past? (a couple of posters have mixed us up before lolol) Point being, people should see him as an inspiration. If a guy in his 20s, who was a virgin and has autism, can turn his dating life around, then so can you. Nevermind the fact that autistic people arent the most super social bunch, so ThaWholigan should REALLY inspire you when you consider everything. I didn't put him down persay. I gave him props when he lost his V, look the thread up... What I did was say, like another poster as well, that he seemed cocky since he lost his V. If I'm wrong, so be it. It won't be the last time I'm wrong. I just think calling Sun a pussy was OTT. Not to say I haven't gone to far... I told a girl here don't make me clown the $hit out of you because I disagreed with her and was tarred and feathered and I apologized. It was more of a "lingo" thing but sounded harsh because the diect is different everywhere. Anyway, people can whine and we can call them out just as I can call someone out for calling them a pussy. And why would you start a thread with here's to the whiners?? Especially when chances are it was a MOB lol that's almost as bad as using the limbless man example.
carhill Posted December 12, 2012 Posted December 12, 2012 Relevant to the OP, I did notice a marked uptick in attention/interest when traveling internationally. From what I experienced with local men, it appeared that the ladies had some pretty healthy potentials to choose amongst, if they were so inclined. Bettering themselves economically surely was a motivator for some, but those I dated did pretty well for themselves and certainly didn't relish moving away from family and friends. Regarding the thread title, though I'm not short, one aspect I have noted of late, conditioned by a lifetime of experience, is that I don't generally believe women who do show interest are being sincere. That's the legacy of the past. Leaving it behind is part of the work in the present. I found it remarkable how all those little remarks I heard during my years of marriage, and prior, can take their toll. Ah, well, life goes on.
ThaWholigan Posted December 12, 2012 Posted December 12, 2012 On point. Perhaps it is my limited exposure to his posts over the past couple months combined with my reading of his posts with limited context primarily in "whining threads" which interest me most that colors my views of his recent attitude changes. I think he's got it going on just fine and am very happy for him. I was just shocked at how often he blasted people for what he considered "whining," especially when you take into account how much sex he's suddenly having now... And besides, I'm still angry. The sex didn't change much in terms of my reactions. I was already getting tired of the whining - even in the lead up to losing my virginity I was getting fed up . I never minded it, of course a guy will be frustrated. But what annoyed me was before and after I lost my virginity up to now, I had debate after discussion, gave mountains of advice, sent out links via PM that I thought would help, and generally kept trying to be supportive - only to have it ignored, thrown in my face or generally made a mockery because "I was still a virgin" or after I lost it "But you're tall/etc" and silly sh*t like that. I guess that is why I started "blasting" people. And besides, nobody seems to say anything when I've "blasted" people like Verhrzn or DY for some of the stupid things that they say, despite their relatively high level of intelligence. I do try to tone it down, and I will take it more into consideration - but I might have to use my ignore list a bit more in order to bite my tongue .
Author FitChick Posted December 12, 2012 Author Posted December 12, 2012 Interesting how most people assumed she was a mail order bride. She spoke perfect English with an American accent. He is Mexican. Perhaps he married her to get into the country! Nah, he's American, too. He isn't fat or out of shape, by the way. She isn't beautiful, just nice looking attractive. Not overweight. If she cooks Asian food, that is probably one reason he isn't fat either.
truth_seeker Posted December 12, 2012 Posted December 12, 2012 Sometimes a woman just wants a reliable, dependable man they can count on in their life.
xxoo Posted December 12, 2012 Posted December 12, 2012 Sometimes a woman just wants a reliable, dependable man they can count on in their life. Who doesn't? The problem I have is the assumption that a short, bald, middle-aged man can't also be sexy, passionate, and a great catch. Height and hair do not make the man! 3
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