hurting alot

[benjii11]

So been together for 6 years with my girlfriend I was madly in love I got engaged this year but now she gone. Basiclly it started I sold all my stuff £8k car to get a flat as she been pestering me for months so I found one and brought loads of bits and she turned round and said she dont want to move out now so I had ago as I had sold all my stuff for her then she got mad and said I treat her like a door Matt and I'm pathetic this was the first week she hardly talked to me and was saying stuff like I'm not gonna dump you but dont no if I wana be with you. When I said I love you on the phone she couldn't even reply to it so one night I got mad and messaged up a girl and asked if she would like to go for a drink I know I really should if not done this but was hurt and anger. So that past for two days I forgot about the drink was gonna meet my girlfriend but the night before she went on my facebook and saw all the messages and said we're finshed I was so deeply hurt I tried to apologies and said it was a mistake I went to her house and was confronted by her brother who started and now she added a fella who she was getting with just before we met and that the only person she's added I'm so deeply hurt I just want her back been 3 days and I ain't spoke to her till to today wen she asked if I had her bracelet I replyed and said no but said I missed her and loved her and would like to go for a drink sometime with her but got no reply. Is this truley done is there nothing I can do i aint the person to cry but i cant stop i hold it when im around mates if i let it out would feel like a twat

[Darren From England]

I don't think you two are done at all, give her some breathing space

And I feel quite confident that you two will get back together

Your situation seems like Tit for Tat to me, I think you both clearly still love each other, stay away from contacting her for 3 weeks, but I think she will make some excuse in those three weeks to contact you

I honestly believe that things will work out for you

My situation unfortunately is so very sad, I have no chance to even communicate with my ex she has cut me out of her life completely

Blocked me and all my family on Facebook, changer her phone number

owes me £200.00 for a mobile phone, yet has disappeared off the face of the earth, well 5 hours away, I even sent her a lovely letter ( Recorded )

it was signed for in another name and I never got a reply

I feel so sh*it as I never did anything wrong, I was the perfect partner

 

Give it three weeks and I strongly believe that she will make some daft excuse to contact you, similar to her wanting her bracelet

 

Keep your chin up mate, best wishes, Darren

[benjii11]

Thanks Darren really put a smile on my face. I hope she does I love so much but Iv deleted her phone number and email to keep me from contacting only thing that worrys me is my friend said she added someone she was getting with before me but I don't no if this is to make me react or hurt me but time will tell. And I feel for you mate it's so hard keep your chin up and hope your patches meet each other again

[benjii11]

Can anyone help its been three weeks nc tried saying merry Xmas but got no reply she been going out alot by her pictures she dont seem that happy but by her fb status she seem she is why ain't she contacted me is she really done and moved on from me . I think one of her friends drives stuff into her head which does not help Just miss her alot and from living with me at my mum and seeing me everyday why has she moved on so fast. It's not like at the end of the relationship there was anything wrong she was really happy it was just a massive row what got out of hand and sprialled out of control