Divasu Posted December 11, 2012 Posted December 11, 2012 Say you meet a woman you like/are attracted to and would like to date her. Say said woman, was not quite yet 'recovered' from a past 'relationship'. Would you prefer she was upfront with this information or do you think that type of information is not required until a certain point.
Mrlonelyone Posted December 11, 2012 Posted December 11, 2012 Most men, bisexual and lesbian woman will tell you that line means one thing. She isn't ready for a relationship with you. 1
Under The Radar Posted December 11, 2012 Posted December 11, 2012 I would prefer she was up front with me before I became too emotionally invested in her.
veggirl Posted December 11, 2012 Posted December 11, 2012 Yes you should divulge that up front. Also, I would ask you "what is a 'relationship'?"
Author Divasu Posted December 11, 2012 Author Posted December 11, 2012 Most men, bisexual and lesbian woman will tell you that line means one thing. She isn't ready for a relationship with you. True. But what if they were to say that upfront (like, on the 1st date and/or prior to the 1st date) and that they were still open to dating and seeing how it goes.
ThaWholigan Posted December 11, 2012 Posted December 11, 2012 Yes I would prefer it upfront, why wouldn't I? . Then we can proceed and see where it goes.
Author Divasu Posted December 11, 2012 Author Posted December 11, 2012 Yes I would prefer it upfront, why wouldn't I? . I thought maybe some guys wouldn't, that's why I asked! As in "why the heck is she telling this and we haven't even been out yet, whoa' mama". Then we can proceed and see where it goes. Great. Thanks!
Illusionist Posted December 12, 2012 Posted December 12, 2012 It is honest, even if you wait for the right moment to tell him. However, it sure would be great to start it early... so that he may knows to start it nice and slow, so that the said woman has time to get out of her last relationship before getting into the new one. "That's my opinion" I said, with a posed look.
carhill Posted December 12, 2012 Posted December 12, 2012 I would prefer she reject me straight away. If she felt the need to explain why, OK. This comes from the painful results of numerous instances of being strung along while she figures it out, rebounds, goes back to ex, etc, etc. If she's not ready for/doesn't find me attractive for a full-on intimate relationship, something I'm very up-front about with people, then be honest and move on.
Radu Posted December 12, 2012 Posted December 12, 2012 True. But what if they were to say that upfront (like, on the 1st date and/or prior to the 1st date) and that they were still open to dating and seeing how it goes. Same thing Divasu. I have experienced it; all that talk goes out the window if a good option appears.
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