Davidnewday Posted December 11, 2012 Posted December 11, 2012 Hi all. I'm david from England. I need help. I recently broke up with my live together girlfriend of on year. She had a very bad attitude and was disrespectfull to me and my apartment. In the end I said I wanted her out by the weekend. The next morning she said after her nightshift I'm going anyway enen if you change Ur mind. I said I know your going don't try and twist it. Anyway long story short she ended up kissing a guy at work will we were still together so I ended it. I'm just realy frustrated as she is trying to make out that she left and she ended it. And lying to all of her friends in this way. Is feel better if she said she was sorry but the way she is I don't think she will. All my friends are like hey you look happyer and my life's in a better place but I still miss her and keep expecting her turning up at the door and having a tearfull embrase. We broke up on the 3rd of November. And just want to feel better. I'm doing no contact but an so tempted to look at her facebook. However last time I did it seemed she was putting posts on to spite me. I'm trying not to respond and only put stuff on my fb which army to do with what I feel about her. Thankyou for reading please help David
Chi townD Posted December 11, 2012 Posted December 11, 2012 Hi David from England. Well, NC sucks at first. Always has and always will. You have to take it one day at a time. I've said this before. Right now, you are no different than and alcoholic or a junkie trying to get clean. You think about the dope and booze often and you are so tempted to have JUST ONE MORE taste. So, as you can see...not much difference and now you're going through heavy withdrawls. But, your friends have notice that you are looking better and perhaps happier all around. But, you still crave her on the inside, again, just like an addict getting clean. So, you have to adopt their ethios. One day at a time. And I promise you that one day, you're going to wake up and she won't be the first thing on your mind. THAT'S when you know the healing has started. Now, her acting the way that she did. Well, she doesn't want to take the blame of the demise of the relationship. So, she demonizes you, stating that you two are broken up because of this, that or the other. She wants to come out of this smelling like roses.
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