NoMagicBullet Posted January 25, 2013 Posted January 25, 2013 I guess if that is the worst thing to come of all this then it has all worked out pretty good. I don't think there are many mother/daughters that could have dealt with this. Oh, it's still very early yet in this relationship. The odds are good this will come up again when things aren't so great and people aren't making such an effort to smooth everything over. Tread carefully, you will be walking among emotional land mines for as long as this relationship lasts. 1
Emilia Posted January 25, 2013 Posted January 25, 2013 I guess if that is the worst thing to come of all this then it has all worked out pretty good. I don't think there are many mother/daughters that could have dealt with this. Ain't that the truth. I am very pleased for you OP but I have to say I'd struggle to keep my dinner down if I found out that someone I dated had had his penis in my mother's vagina. It feels a little too close to incest, I know it's not rational but it does. Good luck anyway.
church9832 Posted January 25, 2013 Posted January 25, 2013 Better she doesn't know and you back out forever (or if life would put you back together, means you gotta tell her and you suck up the anger). If her mum doesn't know about you going to the dinner, then you gotta bail. She'll get hurt but she will get over it. If her mum knows about you going to dinner, then you have to confess to both of them. Or you can talk with the mum privately and keep it a secret (not recommended, lying to your future girlfriend about something like this, big no-no)
Author se7enof9 Posted September 14, 2013 Author Posted September 14, 2013 I just wanted to come back to say WE GOT ENGAGED !!!!! I asked her mum for permission and of course got it and asked her last night and she said yes !!!!! I am the luckiest man alive. From such a rocky beginning something wonderful has grown. And to think, I very nearly walked away. 1
dreamingoftigers Posted September 14, 2013 Posted September 14, 2013 I just wanted to come back to say WE GOT ENGAGED !!!!! I asked her mum for permission and of course got it and asked her last night and she said yes !!!!! I am the luckiest man alive. From such a rocky beginning something wonderful has grown. And to think, I very nearly walked away. Congratulations! Good for you guys.
Yookie Posted September 14, 2013 Posted September 14, 2013 I read this whole thread on the edge of my seat! LOL! Bravo! Fantastic ending!!! Err beginning for you two! Congrats! 1
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