Author MrCastle Posted December 11, 2012 Author Posted December 11, 2012 Also, let's forget the attraction situation here for a second and look at it from a human standpoint. Let's say she's not attracted to me, which, is pretty clear given her actions. Let's say I was friend zoned. Even so, that doesn't excuse the action. You can't say oh well yeah it's understandable, she felt no attraction. Be that as it may, we are both still human beings. I have no intention of sleeping with any of my guy friends. That doesn't mean when they ask me to hang out I agree and then flake with no reason at all and leave them hanging. This was a girl who went from giving me signs of interest to completely torching the relationship. My estimation is she made a snap judgement, didn't think it through, and now has to deal with the consequences. It doesn't take much to cancel on someone or answer a call or text. It's a matter of consideration, not attraction.
Under The Radar Posted December 11, 2012 Posted December 11, 2012 Also, let's forget the attraction situation here for a second and look at it from a human standpoint. Let's say she's not attracted to me, which, is pretty clear given her actions. Let's say I was friend zoned. Even so, that doesn't excuse the action. You can't say oh well yeah it's understandable, she felt no attraction. Be that as it may, we are both still human beings. I have no intention of sleeping with any of my guy friends. That doesn't mean when they ask me to hang out I agree and then flake with no reason at all and leave them hanging. This was a girl who went from giving me signs of interest to completely torching the relationship. My estimation is she made a snap judgement, didn't think it through, and now has to deal with the consequences. It doesn't take much to cancel on someone or answer a call or text. It's a matter of consideration, not attraction. ^^^^^THIS X 1000^^^^^ I couldn't have worded it any better myself; very well said.
Author MrCastle Posted December 11, 2012 Author Posted December 11, 2012 (edited) ^^^^^THIS X 1000^^^^^ I couldn't have worded it any better myself; very well said. And it's not one of those things that was said in passing and never materialized. There are hundreds of times where you tell someone "oh we should catch a movie or something sometime" and you're like "oh totally" and then neither one of you contacts the other. That was just something said in the moment, it wasn't concrete. In the above example, I'm sure neither side harbored resentment for the other because the plans never came to fruition. In my case, it was concrete. Edited December 11, 2012 by MrCastle
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