hugznkisses21 Posted August 11, 2004 Posted August 11, 2004 Ok I just tasked to my bf post argument for those that has been following my posts..... He called me and asked me how I was doing and what yesterday was all about? So i told him basically that I feel like I am a last resort to you when you have nothing else to do. He said that He is going to see what he is doing tomorrow workwise and he is going to come see me if he can and we are going to "talk" AHHHHHHHHH scary i thought oh no break-up and he said no just a talk so we can both share our feeling and worries nd what is bothering us. Then he said well since (Me) I started talking about it he will go into a bit and he started saying all this stuff like we are two different people (that is cool opposites attract) and said that marriage this and moving out that and stuff like If I want to go with the guys i hope that doesnt bother you and stuff that I have never ever said anything about nor complained about at all...weird eh...its like he knew he acted a certain way and had to find something to complain about with me.....I feel bad cause the argument we did have was half my fault (I am too needy and dependant on him) and his fault (lack of effort). Is this normal to fall into these times in long relationship and bounce back out of it? I asked him sooo did u want to break up with me and he said noooo and never thought that...im happy to hear that but a bit confussed why he brought all that stuff up. Maybe to get everything out there so that I dont creep up on him with a problem and end up where we are again? Anyways he is under soo much stress 4 hrs of sleep since Monday....working all the time, he has an infection which he thought had a reaction to the medication last night and was in the hospital until he had to go to work this morning...so i know a bit of this has been weighing on us both. I need Advice on how to not depend on his soo much cause he is very independant and very busy. I love him and want to learn to be that way too and live in harmany with him even if i do only see him once a week....HELP me please! I think we are ok he said I have to go to check a job out I will call u later....I love you I feel like im messing things up. I also want to knoe if this type of arguments that happend for a bit in a relationship that has been over a year are they normal...its like a rut we are in and want to come out.
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