smbutton91 Posted December 11, 2012 Posted December 11, 2012 Hey there, definitely need some help on this one. Let me roll back time. Just after graduation in high school, my girlfriend of 2 years dumped me after she cheated on me for your 2 months. I was devastated. Fast forward 2 months, I was working at a local grocery store. We had a group of new hires joining us, one of the girls joining us was named Sam. She was stunning, cute, funny, down to earth. Anyways we proceeded to go out a couple times. She pulled me out of the dumps, she was everything I wanted. She told me she had a crush on me the day she saw me because I was so sweet to her. Unfortunately I was going to college and she was still in hs. She asked if I wanted to have a relationship. Not wanting to say yes and then leave, I felt I had to say no. Fastforward , I went to paramedic school for a full year. Classes were very busy, time consuming, and degrading upon our friendship. I came back to find her dating another guy, I was crushed. Our texts and calls ceased, except for the occasional run in at the store. But funny things happen. A year later, I run into her at a local festival. She is absolutely drop dead beautiful. Anyways she asks that I should come see her at her college sometime. I agreed and set up a date with her. Knowing she was still dating this guy, I was hesitant. But our communication again grew and grew over the months. Today I drove up 2 hours and took her to lunch. I got her laughing and the chat was great. I was happy. Afterwards she invited me into her dorm and we chatted for another hour or so. She gave me that feeling again. Its been almost 3 years since ive been single, because I've been chasing her. She is 19, I'm 21 Do I tell her how I feel? I don't want to push her away again. I can't sleep eat walk without thinking of her. Any advise helps, thanks.
CptSaveAho Posted December 11, 2012 Posted December 11, 2012 Do I tell her how I feel? I don't want to push her away again. I can't sleep eat walk without thinking of her. Any advise helps, thanks. Never "tell" a girl how you feel, you show it with actions. Say something silly like I have something I've wanted to tell you for a while, take your hand and touch her arm and kiss her. See what happens. If you know she has a boyfriend, I would just pass and deal with your feelings. 1
Cutiepie1976 Posted December 11, 2012 Posted December 11, 2012 As a girl, I say, yes, share your feelings! She probably has similar feelings for you and is wondering how you feel about her. Good luck!
CptSaveAho Posted December 11, 2012 Posted December 11, 2012 As a girl, I say, yes, share your feelings! She probably has similar feelings for you and is wondering how you feel about her. Good luck! This is why you dont "share" feelings but show with actions, you keep them on the edge of their seat. "does he really have feelings for me" Keeps them guessing and wondering and builds attraction
CptObvious Posted December 11, 2012 Posted December 11, 2012 Stay away from taken women. woah buddy, hold on there. Every woman is fair game, and besides, if you ain't good enough to keep your championship then it's time to face the truth and get taken down. You either continue winning or you lose it all to someone else.
Woggle Posted December 11, 2012 Posted December 11, 2012 woah buddy, hold on there. Every woman is fair game, and besides, if you ain't good enough to keep your championship then it's time to face the truth and get taken down. You either continue winning or you lose it all to someone else. The view I have is that if they will do it to him they will do it to me.
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