CptObvious Posted December 11, 2012 Posted December 11, 2012 Well, perhaps it raises their sense of entitlement. In their minds, they are thinking "well, if I can get this, then I'm sure I can get that...," and believing they should rate more...so they go after the better looking guy, or the guy that can provide higher social status or value, or the guy who can give them more material wealth, etc. A simple bartering system...social value for sex. Nothing wrong with that. Always look to improve your assets. What I'm concerned about is how awful the strategy is. It's like teaching a puppy to run into traffic.
maybealone Posted December 11, 2012 Posted December 11, 2012 When's the last time you went out and saw someone walking on the street who made you feel secure, wanted, needed, and/or awesome? Sometimes that come from -- wait for it -- talking to the woman. I have met men that I instantly thought were kind of meh, but in talking to them for a short while began to find them very appealing. Some women like, and want, the whole package.
Treasa Posted December 11, 2012 Posted December 11, 2012 I want a guy who is confident, funny, wants sex a lot (with me, not with other girls), is into adventures, thinks I'm amazing, has mad respect for me, and who is financially independent. I recent realized that my last four boyfriends lived at home with their parents..
Necromancer Posted December 11, 2012 Posted December 11, 2012 I want a guy who is confident, funny, wants sex a lot (with me, not with other girls), is into adventures, thinks I'm amazing, has mad respect for me, and who is financially independent. I recent realized that my last four boyfriends lived at home with their parents.. And i want a Ferrari...... Seriously if you want a guy who is confident, funny, financially independent, good looking and respects you at least be most of it yourself!. A guy like you described must have **** loads of options and mostly top 15%.
El Brujo Posted December 11, 2012 Posted December 11, 2012 OK, I just thought I throw this out there. Lots of people are worried about getting the right haircut, job, personality, body fat percentage and so on. All that goes out the window, if 2 people connect, and being in a relationship with you makes the woman feel: secure content wanted needed awesome (I am really out of words today) When that happens, you become infinitely more attractive, no matter what! Everyone else chime in too. If only!!! What a shame that so few women will actually give a man the chance to do so. 1
Mme. Chaucer Posted December 11, 2012 Posted December 11, 2012 YEP If you can manipulate women into feeling a certain way around you... they are yours. I think we've all got the picture by now that you believe yourself to be a masterful manipulator of women and you're bursting with pride about it. Do you have anything else? Or is this about it?
PJKino Posted December 11, 2012 Posted December 11, 2012 maybe the exception would be love can grow without be physically attracted first......i have tried this once before the relationship lasted three years......i did feel for the guy .....just nto serious sparks or passion for him .....i tried though Leading him on for three years? thats why you need physical attraction in reltionships Its also why im apprenhensive that even if i get a women somehowit will be because of some other traits besides the physical and she really wont feel any lust for me and eventually leave
veggirl Posted December 11, 2012 Posted December 11, 2012 Hmmm. I don't know. I feel awesome just on my own, I guess that is why I require my man to be sexy. 1
ThaWholigan Posted December 11, 2012 Posted December 11, 2012 Hmmm. I don't know. I feel awesome just on my own, I guess that is why I require my man to be sexy. Wholigan approves. 1
pbjbear Posted December 11, 2012 Posted December 11, 2012 (edited) Men like women who make them feel awesome. I think men have bigger egos on average than women. Women are taught to be more caring and nurturing, and to place more importance on relationships...men are not. Very few men nowadays are caring/nurturing to the woman they are dating. There is usually a giver and a taker in each relationship. In a mature healthy relationship, a man and a woman is both a giver and a taker. Thats why they say relationships are a "give and take" However, many times a woman ends up being a giver since society says we are supposed to while the man takes. From all the relationships Ive seen, Ive seen more "giver women" and "taker men" relationships than vice versa. I have yet to date someone for awhile that gave back to me. And none of them portrayed themselves as total jerks either Edited December 11, 2012 by pbjbear
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