GirlontheLam Posted December 11, 2012 Posted December 11, 2012 OK, I just thought I throw this out there. Lots of people are worried about getting the right haircut, job, personality, body fat percentage and so on. All that goes out the window, if 2 people connect, and being in a relationship with you makes the woman feel: secure content wanted needed awesome (I am really out of words today) When that happens, you become infinitely more attractive, no matter what! Everyone else chime in too. 2
Toddbt12y1 Posted December 11, 2012 Posted December 11, 2012 Respect? No, not that overly weird respect. Women are all too different for me to tell these days what they want. All you listed is good. But I actually don't know what to add beyond respect...how sad.
ThaWholigan Posted December 11, 2012 Posted December 11, 2012 YEP... that's totally true. Its basically the main gist of most of my threads. If you can manipulate women into feeling a certain way around you... they are yours. Depends on how you "manipulate" them. I prefer to do my "manipulating" direct, upfront and honest - in my own incomparable way of course . 2
charlietheginger Posted December 11, 2012 Posted December 11, 2012 Bs... I was fat met a girls no connection Lost 40lbs met the same girls Now feeling connections.... So i call bs being a healthy bf% and attracting the opposite sex to engage With you is how you get a connection... Take the show cheers for example Sitting on a bar stool looking like Norm from cheers wont get you laid Standing thin and attractive like sam The bartender got him Kirstie alleg
Nightsky Posted December 11, 2012 Posted December 11, 2012 OK, I just thought I throw this out there. Lots of people are worried about getting the right haircut, job, personality, body fat percentage and so on. All that goes out the window, if 2 people connect, and being in a relationship with you makes the woman feel: secure content wanted needed awesome (I am really out of words today) When that happens, you become infinitely more attractive, no matter what! Everyone else chime in too. You know what makes a woman feel awesome when a guy has fame, fortune, and the body to match. Works every time! You heard it here fella's 2
todreaminblue Posted December 11, 2012 Posted December 11, 2012 OK, I just thought I throw this out there. Lots of people are worried about getting the right haircut, job, personality, body fat percentage and so on. All that goes out the window, if 2 people connect, and being in a relationship with you makes the woman feel: secure content wanted needed awesome (I am really out of words today) When that happens, you become infinitely more attractive, no matter what! Everyone else chime in too. make you feel beautiful even though you arent look you in the eyes hear what you say.....all awesomeness.. make you feel like you matter are so honest and affable you just wanna hug them..lol then your heart beats faster you hear every inflection.....every nuance....you are entranced...ok ocd girl happening im leaving......slinks off....deb 1
Author GirlontheLam Posted December 11, 2012 Author Posted December 11, 2012 You know what makes a woman feel awesome when a guy has fame, fortune, and the body to match. Works every time! You heard it here fella's No it doesn't, that is all self-serving stuff. Eye candy if you will. Meaningless in you feeling "awesome" unless you are one of the few people in the world that are 100% validated by the perception that you have everything and life is perfect. This type isn't really very common. 1
Nightsky Posted December 11, 2012 Posted December 11, 2012 No it doesn't, that is all self-serving stuff. Eye candy if you will. Meaningless in you feeling "awesome" unless you are one of the few people in the world that are 100% validated by the perception that you have everything and life is perfect. This type isn't really very common. I was making a joke. Your advice is kind of non advice though.
Author GirlontheLam Posted December 11, 2012 Author Posted December 11, 2012 I was making a joke. Your advice is kind of non advice though. OK. I can never be so sure. Some people believe that. It wasn't really advice...hehe
USMCHokie Posted December 11, 2012 Posted December 11, 2012 OK, I just thought I throw this out there. Lots of people are worried about getting the right haircut, job, personality, body fat percentage and so on. All that goes out the window, if 2 people connect, and being in a relationship with you makes the woman feel: secure content wanted needed awesome (I am really out of words today) When that happens, you become infinitely more attractive, no matter what! Everyone else chime in too. Your theory is predicated on one very important assumption...that two people "connect." "All that" is what you need to actually initiate a connection. No one has any incentive, save for the occasional exception, to consider connecting with a person without a physical attraction. When's the last time you went out and saw someone walking on the street who made you feel secure, wanted, needed, and/or awesome? What does that even look like?
Nightsky Posted December 11, 2012 Posted December 11, 2012 OK. I can never be so sure. Some people believe that. It wasn't really advice...hehe Well I believe being rich, famous, and good looking will make women feel awesome. Thing is just saying that ins't really a PSA. You 've skipped that step and just talked about feelings a girl will have. Your theory is predicated on one very important assumption...that two people "connect." "All that" is what you need to actually initiate a connection. No one has any incentive, save for the occasional exception, to consider connecting with a person without a physical attraction. When's the last time you went out and saw someone walking on the street who made you feel secure, wanted, needed, and/or awesome? What does that even look like? This is why her advice is non advice. Than again PSA's are usualy non advice too right? Like a bear telling you "Only you can fight forest fires" actually thats more helpful than this psa.
Author GirlontheLam Posted December 11, 2012 Author Posted December 11, 2012 Your theory is predicated on one very important assumption...that two people "connect." "All that" is what you need to actually initiate a connection. No one has any incentive, save for the occasional exception, to consider connecting with a person without a physical attraction. When's the last time you went out and saw someone walking on the street who made you feel secure, wanted, needed, and/or awesome? What does that even look like? You men assume we can only connect with the best looking guy in the room. Sometimes it is instant. Other times it builds. It is safe to say, it can happen with who you absolutely least expect. Joe Average can generate this feeling. Not just Joe Six Pack (and not the beer drinking one).
charlietheginger Posted December 11, 2012 Posted December 11, 2012 You men assume we can only connect with the best looking guy in the room. Sometimes it is instant. Other times it builds. It is safe to say, it can happen with who you absolutely least expect. Joe Average can generate this feeling. Not just Joe Six Pack (and not the beer drinking one). Yes average Joe gets average women we get it Thanks for telling us what's we already know..
Author GirlontheLam Posted December 11, 2012 Author Posted December 11, 2012 Yes average Joe gets average women we get it Thanks for telling us what's we already know.. I don't know. I see Joe Averages with Holly Hotties. I can only assume they made her feel awesome. It isn't as linear as you might think.
Nightsky Posted December 11, 2012 Posted December 11, 2012 Guys I just found a really helpful PSA just like this thread on youtube
USMCHokie Posted December 11, 2012 Posted December 11, 2012 You men assume we can only connect with the best looking guy in the room. Sometimes it is instant. Other times it builds. It is safe to say, it can happen with who you absolutely least expect. Joe Average can generate this feeling. Not just Joe Six Pack (and not the beer drinking one). No, not necessarily the best looking. But it can be safe to assume that you can only connect with the guys who are good looking enough and that will certainly vary between women. However, it's safe to say that society has created a very rough mold of what that is...i.e., generally favorable attributes and traits which make a man desirable enough for dating.
MrCastle Posted December 11, 2012 Posted December 11, 2012 Ahh, so you just have to be nice? F***! Why didn't I think of that?! 2
todreaminblue Posted December 11, 2012 Posted December 11, 2012 heres some more who dont back down from what they believe in arent afraid to pull you up who can have passionate conversations without it being sexual who dont agree with everything you say (if they arent hungry they say im not hungry) who are cheeky in the nicest possible way who can laugh at themselves , who laugh with you not at you,who can tease with the best of them but then be serious who wear white shirts because they know they dont have to wear a brand to be cool..... who are affectionate without it being sexual who you without a doubt know in your heart if someone disrespected you they would be there right beside you.....because they are not afraid of standing up for what they believe in and they dont back away....and leave you feeling alone, they stand up fro their friends their family and what they believe in...now thats cool
charlietheginger Posted December 11, 2012 Posted December 11, 2012 I don't know. I see Joe Averages with Holly Hotties. I can only assume they made her feel awesome. It isn't as linear as you might think. Average joe might have a rich family And poor holly heartless was born hot But family is poor.... Hence average joe = big wallet Hot girl = im hot but poor = average joe with holly hotness
somedude81 Posted December 11, 2012 Posted December 11, 2012 Ahh, so you just have to be nice? F***! Why didn't I think of that?! Don't forget to pay her lots of compliments and do everything she wants. Girls love that stuff and reward you with BJ's. 2
rocketman122 Posted December 11, 2012 Posted December 11, 2012 I tell you what though. the women I have dated seem to have a bit of self esteem/confidence issues. I never feel above them and in fact do the things listed here. I make them feel special and desired and sexy and wanted. and I listen and im always attentive. but because I do all these things a lot of woman raise their noses after a while. I bring them up too high, make them feel good about themselves and it backfires on me. then they have an attitude problem. my mom and sister have noticed this and said I shouldnt bring them up too much. they are right. 2
movingon12 Posted December 11, 2012 Posted December 11, 2012 No, not necessarily the best looking. But it can be safe to assume that you can only connect with the guys who are good looking enough and that will certainly vary between women. However, it's safe to say that society has created a very rough mold of what that is...i.e., generally favorable attributes and traits which make a man desirable enough for dating. I don't think that's society, I think that's just evolution. It's all about making and protecting healthy babies. Even when it's not.
USMCHokie Posted December 11, 2012 Posted December 11, 2012 I tell you what though. the women I have dated seem to have a bit of self esteem/confidence issues. I never feel above them and in fact do the things listed here. I make them feel special and desired and sexy and wanted. and I listen and im always attentive. but because I do all these things a lot of woman raise their noses after a while. I bring them up too high, make them feel good about themselves and it backfires on me. then they have an attitude problem. my mom and sister have noticed this and said I shouldnt bring them up too much. they are right. Well, perhaps it raises their sense of entitlement. In their minds, they are thinking "well, if I can get this, then I'm sure I can get that...," and believing they should rate more...so they go after the better looking guy, or the guy that can provide higher social status or value, or the guy who can give them more material wealth, etc. A simple bartering system...social value for sex.
CptObvious Posted December 11, 2012 Posted December 11, 2012 No tutorial? Okay great. Here's mine: secure - keep hittin the chest and biceps bro, and get paid content - and now she get's paid off of what you just got paid wanted - dat ass, dem titties, u know u want em. Let her know. needed - uhhh, I guess you can't live without clean dishes amirite? awesome - she's perfect just the way she is, no matter what. You don't have to believe it, just say it out loud when you're around her. Avoid a real fight like you're GSP refusing to go to middleweight. When that happens, you become infinitely more attractive, no matter what! As the poster above me said, you can't afford to build women up too high. This is a game and they are your enemy. You're out there to win, not bend over and get your **** pushed. You can't keep feeding their ego and expect that gameplan to work out. LTRs require a lot of tactics, a lot of balance, and a lot of patience. If I followed your checklist I'd lose so much ground so fast I'd be in china before you finish reading this.
todreaminblue Posted December 11, 2012 Posted December 11, 2012 Your theory is predicated on one very important assumption...that two people "connect." "All that" is what you need to actually initiate a connection. No one has any incentive, save for the occasional exception, to consider connecting with a person without a physical attraction. When's the last time you went out and saw someone walking on the street who made you feel secure, wanted, needed, and/or awesome? What does that even look like? maybe the exception would be love can grow without be physically attracted first......i have tried this once before the relationship lasted three years......i did feel for the guy .....just nto serious sparks or passion for him .....i tried though
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