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I was going to ask out this girl I know, but I'm not exactly sure when the date will be because I don't know her schedule but I was thinking of saying, "Would like to go out on a date with me sometime?" But I'm not sure if that's how I should say it. What do you think?

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I was going to ask out this girl I know, but I'm not exactly sure when the date will be because I don't know her schedule but I was thinking of saying, "Would like to go out on a date with me sometime?" But I'm not sure if that's how I should say it. What do you think?

Just say it man :laugh:

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Just say it man :laugh:

 

Whelp said it and got a date on Friday:cool:

 

Hopefully this won't be like the last one where the girl reveals she has a BF the entire time.

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Whelp said it and got a date on Friday:cool:

 

Hopefully this won't be like the last one where the girl reveals she has a BF the entire time.

See. That right there is exactly what I'm talking about.

 

Guys, there is a lesson:

 

Stop being a pussy and go ask her out.

 

/thread.

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...anyone else come in here thinking: "duh, with a time machine" ?

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See. That right there is exactly what I'm talking about.

 

Guys, there is a lesson:

 

Stop being a pussy and go ask her out.

 

/thread.

 

Hopefully everything goes well and she sounded excited, though it was kind of funny how when I asked her out I suggested we go to a movie on Friday and she already knew exactly what movie she wanted to see, where she wanted to see it, at what time, and where and exactly when to pick her up.

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Hopefully everything goes well and she sounded excited, though it was kind of funny how when I asked her out I suggested we go to a movie on Friday and she already knew exactly what movie she wanted to see, where she wanted to see it, at what time, and where and exactly when to pick her up.

 

what movie?

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what movie?

 

The Hobbit.

 

I hope its good as the Lord of the Rings, because I heard its 3 hours long.

 

Also any tips for a movie date, so I can potentially get a second date?

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The Hobbit.

 

I hope its good as the Lord of the Rings, because I heard its 3 hours long.

 

Also any tips for a movie date, so I can potentially get a second date?

 

 

 

Yeah, I've got two:

  • Don't show up "In Character". Although I find Gandalf "Hot"... your date probably won't ;).
  • Don't hog the popcorn.

Seriously, I'm super stoked for you and hope the date goes well!

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The Hobbit.

 

I hope its good as the Lord of the Rings, because I heard its 3 hours long.

 

Also any tips for a movie date, so I can potentially get a second date?

 

1. keep your mouth shut during the movie

2. pay attention to whats going on during the movie so you can talk about it later

3. sit close to her, so if she wants to lean on your shoulder/arm she can

4. after the movie releases ask her if she wants to go get ice cream or a drink etc.

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1. keep your mouth shut during the movie

 

What is he supposed to be, a mute? Geesh, lol.

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What is he supposed to be, a mute? Geesh, lol.

 

 

I have seen way to many movie dates go bad, because the guy kept trying to talk to the girl during the movie. It's kind of a two fold issue, your distracting her, and it's rude to the people around them.

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I was going to ask out this girl I know, but I'm not exactly sure when the date will be because I don't know her schedule but I was thinking of saying, "Would like to go out on a date with me sometime?" But I'm not sure if that's how I should say it. What do you think?

 

 

you should say exactly what you wrote its refreshingly simple and honest...good luck ....deb

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Whelp said it and got a date on Friday:cool:

 

Hopefully this won't be like the last one where the girl reveals she has a BF the entire time.

 

I have faith in you

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you should say exactly what you wrote its refreshingly simple and honest...good luck ....deb

 

Simple, honest, and unambiguous have always worked well for me.

 

1. would you like to .... with me

2. I'd like to .....

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Whelp said it and got a date on Friday:cool:

 

Hopefully this won't be like the last one where the girl reveals she has a BF the entire time.

 

If I had a BF and a guy asked me out to go to a movie alone (and he wasn't already a friend), I either would say no, or suggest more people, or make it clear from the beginning I had a BF. Given how she did none of that, you're probably fine.

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I have seen way to many movie dates go bad, because the guy kept trying to talk to the girl during the movie. It's kind of a two fold issue, your distracting her, and it's rude to the people around them.

 

For a first date would you recommend just being friendly like I'm hanging out with my guy friends sort of or should I try to get "closer" to her and if so, any suggestions?

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For a first date would you recommend....?

 

 

BEING FUN. Nothing else matters. She will decide if she is attracted to you. She already said "yes" to the date so hurdle one is passed. Just have fun, be playful, be carefree.... NOTHING IN THE WORLD MATTERS BESIDES ENJOYING YOURSELVES.

 

If you get a flat on the way... smile and say "time me... I'm going to see if I'd make a good pit crew."

 

If it rains get excited like a kid, wink, and say "ooohhh, and you were afraid this date would be boring."

 

The tickets cost you four zillion dollars... "meh, that's what money's for!"

 

 

You get the idea. Spin everything positive.

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The number one thing you should do, is be yourself. Putting on a front, is a guaranteed way to fail. Another sure fire way to fail, is to be overly aggressive.

 

As for rather you should get close to her, that's down to your personality and feel for the situation. A lot of times I lean on my arm that's sharing the arm rest with her seat. If she is comfortable with you she will probably do that same, or even rest her head on your shoulder. O and for the love of god don't try any of the 50's yawn, stretch put your arm around her crap.

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...anyone else come in here thinking: "duh, with a time machine" ?

Ugh, you beat me to it. I should have used my time machine.

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