madbloominghime Posted December 10, 2012 Posted December 10, 2012 we just talked and he told me that his officemate was been able to trap him which is a very shocking news. Someone told him that I should leave this guy already but he sent me this email: "Sorry, I shutdown skype while you were testing me. I do love you but I have done something wrong. I don't deserve to be with you because you have been so nice with me and I broke the "contract" we had together. I feel very bad now, and it is affecting me in my work. I hope we can talk on cam, not by mail. I am confuse and need some time. F" I said: "honestly as soon as I know what's happening I told myself that she did it with you. People told me that I should ditch you already because they believe that a cheater is always a cheater. But I told myself that I should not be swayed by my emotions so that I can have a rational mind over this matter. So I'm saying this not because I already forgot what you did. it's clear as a running water but nothing would came good out of it if I will just let my emotions control me. if you were saying is true it's good that you admit that you are wrong and I'm glad you were honest about it. Since this is happening right now all I can do and decide as a rational being is to not decide for now and allow you to prove yourself to me. You just need to prove that you really have a remorse on what you did last week. That's all I ask. in the case of you don't deserve to be with me, all I can say is that everybody deserves a second chance..If God forgive us humans why can't I but unlike God who just forgive and forget like what I've said you need to prove that you are worthy of a second chance. I am willing to give you a second chance if you will be able to prove to me that you are worthy enough..if it means of courting me again to win back my trust then do so.. you have proven your love for me before so I know you will again this time. and one more thing, be sure that if second chance will be given to u don't waste that second chance so better straight ur priorities up and if it means to be rude to any girl trying to put u in a trap again then do so.. God Bless and Good Luck with my challenge." Am I doing the right decision??
jags2bowl27 Posted December 10, 2012 Posted December 10, 2012 sounds like you are giving him a second chance before even having to prove himself. yes your words say prove it but as a guy and as im reading, i feel like the door is wide open and you would take him back in a heart beat. What you all think? 1
Author madbloominghime Posted December 11, 2012 Author Posted December 11, 2012 so I should stop communicating with him right?
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