nicole100 Posted December 10, 2012 Posted December 10, 2012 My ex and I dated for 6 months, serious relationship, together all the time and he always told me how happy he was and everyday told me how much he loved me. One day I came to the apartment and he had all my stuff packed up and dumped me, with excuses like "you don't pay for enough things, you have 6 months of college, you won't keep a good diet" exc...He cried when he dumped me and the last thing he told me was "I love you" then left. I didn't hear from him until I told him that he had gotten me pregnant. THATS when he finally said "we got too close." and the truth came out. We got together again for a week...then I had miscarried and he just left again. We did hook up once around a month later, then 6 days after that he had a new girlfriend who looks like he found her at the local bar, dressing slutty in club dresses all the time and easy looking. He never allowed me to wear clothes like she does, unless it was in the bedroom. He said he doesn't want to talk to me, he ignores me, doesn't want any type of relationship with me and I didn't do a thing to him! He always looks ashamed when I see him look at me, although I do know for a fact he did not cheat. He stays drunk avd goes to bars and clubs all the time, and that is not his scene at all. If he got too close with me, why is he with this trashy looking whore that looks like she's gave it up to every guy downtown? He makes me feel like I did something wrong, when I was the most loving, faithful, caring girlfriend you could ask for. Why did he do this to me? It's been almost 6 months since he left.
TaraMaiden Posted December 10, 2012 Posted December 10, 2012 Because that's what he decided he wanted to do. You need to go No Contact, quit going to the same places, comparing, and asking questions to which - sadly - there are no answers. Or none that will soothe and appease your broken heart. Read the No Contact guide link in my signature. Your healing starts here.
Darren From England Posted December 12, 2012 Posted December 12, 2012 To be honest with you my darling he sounds a bit of a co*k I would go no contact and see if he comes back to you The whore will probably be nothing more than something to pass the time with When you are no longer there ( Contacting Him ) AND IF HE lOVES YOU And you claimed the last thing he said was that he did HE WILL BE BACK IN TOUCH I GUARANTEE Stick in there girl x
KathyM Posted December 12, 2012 Posted December 12, 2012 He did it because he's attracted to the other girl. You mentioned he criticized your diet, so I'm assuming he found the other girl to be more attractive. I think that's the cold hard truth, based on what you've said.
D-Lish Posted December 12, 2012 Posted December 12, 2012 One day I came to the apartment and he had all my stuff packed up and dumped me, with excuses like "you don't pay for enough things, you have 6 months of college, you won't keep a good diet" exc...He cried when he dumped me and the last thing he told me was "I love you" then left. Why would he pack up your stuff- then leave? The guy doesn't sound worthy of a second chance IMO- he treated you badly, why would you want a second chance? Surely you believe you deserve better?
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