KJBA2816 Posted December 10, 2012 Posted December 10, 2012 I was in the supermarket where he works and he hasn't started work yet he was just in there talking to people and I couldn't help myself and had a go at him. I wanted to know why he is such an ignorant prick? How can he have moved onto another girl and probably slept with her by now?! How he can invite her to his 21st when he barely bloody knows her?! How I can stand there and be by his side after he lost his grandad, be there for him before, during and after and picked up the pieces for him and when I need someone he leaves and chats up the first girl possible?! - I just cannot go on, people say move on.. Be strong, it'll get better, I have never felt so terrible in all my life and I just feel I can't stand this pain anymore. I hate what my life has become and I can't do this anymore.
Author KJBA2816 Posted December 10, 2012 Author Posted December 10, 2012 Sorry forgot * on pr*ck! So angry
KatZee Posted December 10, 2012 Posted December 10, 2012 He dumped you. That's how he's able to just go and try to date someone else. He didn't want to be with you. It didn't matter how amazing you were or how much you've been there for him. He had no interest in dating you. And this outburst at his place of employment just cemented the reasons for why he doesn't want to be with you. Get a grip and control yourself. I get that you're angry but was there a need to broadcast your business for everyone to see and hear, and to basically trash the way people view him at his job? Not sure what you hoped to achieve with this stunt but you're now labeled the "psycho ex." You should do kickboxing or some sort of grueling exercise to control the anger.
Author KJBA2816 Posted December 10, 2012 Author Posted December 10, 2012 That was a bit uncalled for, you're suppose to support people on here. However I didn't scream at him inside his work place I began talking to him and we spoke outside for a bit. To which again he didn't give me the time nor day. I am hurting, I have never ever felt this way in my life and I want him to hurt. I get he doesn't want me etc but for someone to be through it all with him and then when I need him he leaves? I am hurting!
KatZee Posted December 11, 2012 Posted December 11, 2012 You were dumped, it sucks. I know it does, and most people on here know it sucks. Unfortunately it doesn't really sound like this guy gives a s.hit about you at all. So anything you try to do to "make him hurt" the way you're hurting isn't going to work. You're going to make yourself look bad, and he's going to have all the ammunition against you. There's no point dwelling or trying to get revenge or intentionally hurt him. You can't force someone to be with you, and you can't control how fast they move on after you. He didn't cheat on you, he didn't do anything wrong. Since he moved on so quickly, it's safe to say he checked out of the relationship way before he ended it with you, so although it may be so quick for you, it may not be for him.
suladas Posted December 11, 2012 Posted December 11, 2012 Ya you are far from alone. I wanted to lash out like that to, but getting angry at them doesn't do any good as Katzee said. Infact in my case anyways, still being nice is the better approach because their conscience will catch up with them and make them feel like crap. I enjoy that more and to me anyways, it says a lot to be the bigger person in a break up and not resort to any name calling, swearing, or saying anything hurtful, or doing anything childish. It might seem impossible right now but you'll get over it. Trust me, I felt that same way for quite a while. But time heals.
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