ricecat7 Posted December 10, 2012 Posted December 10, 2012 My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 9 months now. I'm 17 and ye is 19, and we love each other. He is the only man that I truly trust and adore. He has changed my life in amazing ways, and I truly believe he has made me A better person. About 2 weeks ago I came home from his house and this thought came into my head...it was kinda like "maybe you should break up with him, you could go party, do what you want, and not have to worry about the responsiblitys of being a girlfriend." I told him about it, and he was abosolutely devastated, and so am I. I can't get these thoughts out of my head. I don't want to break up with him, I really love him and care about him so much. He makes me soooo happy. I don't want to think about it anymore. I want everything to be back to normal. Please someone help.
pteromom Posted December 10, 2012 Posted December 10, 2012 Is there a way you can have everything you want? What is preventing you from going out and having fun - is it HIM, or is it your own pre-conceived ideas about what "being a girlfriend" means? You should be able to do what you want to do AND be a girlfriend. (Unless what you want to do is another guy.) You need to put a lot of thought into whether this relationship is causing you to compromise yourself. And if so, whether it is something you can solve by changing your own attitude and keeping your boyfriend.
Author ricecat7 Posted December 11, 2012 Author Posted December 11, 2012 Well he's protective, but he will let me han out with my friends. But most of my friends moved on to college this year while I'm still in high school, and he stayed back for me. So there's no friends I have to hang out with that he and I trust. I'm also under stress...college are scholarship applications take up most of my time, I'm short on money after I quit my job to finish out my senior year, like I said before all my close friends are gone, and my strict mother never helps ever.
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