lostsouls Posted December 10, 2012 Posted December 10, 2012 (edited) I'm ivan 25 years old her name is yari shes 31 We had our ups and downs in our relationship and had our own independent company together, we lived together and we had issues, constant arguments, and she was jealous also, she left to live with her family, she would sneak me in her room and we would have the best time, no arguments. I became jealous because I didn't want to lose her and saw her less, and we both said mean things to each other. She got scared of me because I threaten her, she left her job and started to cry in front of her family and showed them the emails I send and put a order of protection against me. Before I went to court I wrote her a letter, letting her know how much I would miss making love to her beautiful body and I was sorry for mentioning our unborn child that we lost. I went to court and gave her a picture of us in bed sleeping together and wrote a note in the back, she smiled at me and I smiled at her in court. she dropped the order of protection. Outside of the courthouse she told me to call her, but didn't say it out loud because her family was next to her. When I called she told me I never told you to call me, which was weird. I told her my mother is dying and I didn't want to lose both of the most important women in my life at the same time. She said that she didn't want to be in this relationship. I asked her do you hate me? she said no. I haven't heard from her since November 27 and every day that goes by I miss my best friend. Edited December 10, 2012 by lostsouls
Chi townD Posted December 10, 2012 Posted December 10, 2012 Here's the suck of it all. If she doesn't want to be with you then you can MAKE her be with you. She's making a choice to have you out of her life. Therefore, you need to give her just that. She's willing to let you go. So, when things calm down and if she trys to reach out to you. You need to be strong and ignore her. I mean, she tried to put an order of protection out on you. If that went through, that's on your record dude! Remember, you didn't want this, she did. So, you have to be strong and heal. Time to move on, she wants to go down a different path. Sorry if this isn't what you want to hear. But, it's the hard truth.
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