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I had a few meetings with a girl that I met on my daily train rides. You may call it dates, but it wasn't really that fancy in my opinion. I guess I will try to roll it up from the beginning and keep my questions for the end.

 

Like I said, I met her on the train. I take the train two hours every day, 1 in the morning and 1 in the evening. In general, it's all kind of different people who are sitting in the first compartment with me and only a few that I nearly always see... like some guy, who looks like a white Bob Marley and smells strongly like a herb garden. In general, when I got a seat, I take out a book and start to read since I have a lot of time to kill. On the day when I met this girl, I was reading the first part of the "Shades of Grey" serious, a gift from a friend and my last resort, since I had no other unread books left this day.

 

Around twenty or twenty five minutes later, a women sat down in front of me. In general, this wouldn't distract me, but she was kinda talkative. She asked me about the book and we began to talk for a while. It actually was kinda nice, but it felt a bit strange in some ways. For example, she said something like "You seem to read a lot", before I even mentioned any book beyond the one that I had in my hands. As well, she got a bit pushy in the end and even insisted that we should trade numbers.

 

In general, I wouldn't think too much about it, but in our last meetings she took kinda huge steps and it kinda seems as if it can't get fast enough for her. As well, she kinda gives way too much compliments... it feels a bit weird in my opinion, but on the other hand, it is the first time that a women made a move on me, so I may just not be used to it.

I hope I don't sound paranoid, but I just hope that she isn't some kind of obsessive girl or something like that. Maybe I'm overreacting a bit.

 

It would be great, if you guys could tell me your opinions. I guess it would make me feel a bit more secure about this situation.

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She wants to act out scenes from the book.

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She wants to act out scenes from the book.

 

Lol! That or shes desperate or both.

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SSSHHHHhhhhhhh...........

 

Don't question it. Smile. Relax. Enjoy.

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Is she hot? Is she doable?

 

 

 

 

If you answered yes to any of the above questions, then you have the green light. Pay the price later. We're men, we'll figure out what to do when our actions catch up to us

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It's hard to tell if you guys are serious...

 

Well. I had the "desperate" theory as well, but I kinda lost it, since she wasn't making any great moves on our first date and we already had a few and still nothing that comes close to the book.

However, she is pushing things further bit by bit with every date.

It somehow beats me why she is so passionate about it, but it sure fits her character, at least as far as I got to know her. She has that certain kind of temperament.

 

As for her being hot, I guess you could say that. At least you can count her as attractive and above average, from my experience. And she mostly dresses in normal, but trendy clothing. So nothing slutty, which kinda works against the "desperate" or "wants to do dirty stuff" theory.

 

And she seems to have an SMS and calls flatrate... I get tons of them.

As far as our plans go, I got invited by her for this friday, watching a movie and then going to her apartment for dinner. She insisted to cook.

 

So either I will be very lucky, or I will be missing with the start of the next week. She doesn't seems like the stalker type to me, so I hope that my feeling is right and there is no bad surprise.

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