meanddaguys Posted December 10, 2012 Posted December 10, 2012 I posted a week or so ago regarding my boyfriend needing space since his divorce is so new. I just want to see if anyone has had any similar situation and any advice for me on the following. I met in person with him the end of last week. We still have each other's house keys, he told me that he is still in love with me but because he has in the past month taken on the workload of 3 people and is still trying to figure out how to balance that along with being a single dad now he is stressed out and feels he cannot be the boyfriend I deserve right now. He said he sees us together long term and if and when he gets married again he see's it being me. He just has to figure this out for him right now. He said his biggest fear is that he will hurt me and mess up the best thing that has ever happened to him. He has not missed a beat on texting me to see how my day was since this happened. Of course it is less which is to be expected. I am doing much better with it than I was last week but still wonder if he truly means everything he says. I believe in my heart that if he didn't have those feelings and didn't want me in his life he would have completely ended it. I know that right after a divorce things are very complicated and delicate ( I went through it 4 years ago) but I can't help but wonder if we will truly be able to be us again. Can anyone help with this please
flitzanu Posted December 10, 2012 Posted December 10, 2012 he either: 1) decided now he doesn't want to date you anymore and date other people 2) he wants to date other people, but wants to keep you as an option 3) or, he literally just wants to be single and not date anyone. any of the options are simply that there is a part of him saying he does not want to date you.
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