lovebyte Posted December 10, 2012 Share Posted December 10, 2012 I first met this guy 2 months back when he and his friends approached me and my girlfriends at a restaurant bar. After hanging out a couple or 3 hours together, he singled me out and asked me if I wanted to meet him for lunch the next day, which i rejected as it was already near to 2am, and I didnt think I wanted to wake up so early the next morning. Before the night ended, he took my number and promptly called me the next day to ask if I wanted to join him and his friends for a drink. I didnt accept his invite, not knowing that he would be leaving the country for a few months the next day. Ever since, he has been messaging me almost daily and making long distance calls to me every once a week. Recently, he has asked me to be his date for his friend's wedding when he's back in the country next month. (On a separate occassion, he has also asked if I would go out on a date with him when he's back) Can I take it that he likes me and he's not a player? As much as I think he's a great guy and I have started to develop feelings for him, I sorta find this entire thing to be quite absurd as we have had only one brief encounter. And asking a girl he has only met once to be his date for a friend's wedding? Would any of you guys do that? I am not sure what to make of this. Link to post Share on other sites
mammasita Posted December 10, 2012 Share Posted December 10, 2012 I dont think you can really tell at this point if he's a player or not. I mean, its obvious that he likes you - but you can't know his true intentions without going on a date or two (without having sex with him). Do you know anything about his relationship/dating history? How old is he? Link to post Share on other sites
Author lovebyte Posted December 10, 2012 Author Share Posted December 10, 2012 He's 32... he mentioned a few times that he wanted to settle down soon. As for his dating history, he didnt speak much about it besides casually mentioning that his ex dumped him for another guy when he was based overseas. Link to post Share on other sites
O'Malley Posted December 10, 2012 Share Posted December 10, 2012 The only thing you can take from it at this point is that the guy is persistent. It's depends on your comfort level with the interactions that you've had with him. If you're interested, offer to meet up for coffee or dinner when he returns and see how you feel about him. Attending a wedding with a near stranger involves too much time and pressure for the initial stages. Link to post Share on other sites
Author lovebyte Posted December 10, 2012 Author Share Posted December 10, 2012 My friend thinks that there's a chance that he might be feeling bored, hence looking for someone to talk to. Hmmm... Link to post Share on other sites
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