DacaInaru Posted August 11, 2004 Posted August 11, 2004 ok.. I was sitting here reading some stuff.. and started to wonder.. how different the minds of men and women work.. and about how different my ex and I have see what our marriage was.. for instance... these are things I saw wrong with him.. what I saw wouldn't help financially what he saw Giving her $300 is more than enough since she was paying everything before she married me what I saw suffered from depression wouldn' t get out of bed what he saw tired and nothing wrong I work to hard what I saw Stole items from work ie toilet papers, shampoo ect what he saw I'm providing for her what I saw didn't like my daughter from a previous marriage only communicates with her when i'm mad at him what he saw i'm her father even though i'm really not real fathers don't talk to their children What I saw quit his job is he insane I can't make ends meet as it is what he saw My wife is rich I don't need a job like I said she made ends meet before I came into the picture what I saw going on vacation asked if he would come refuses to go out with us.. so I go without him What he saw I can't believe she abandonded me let me call and try to make her feel guilty for going on vacation without me What I saw I can't believe i'm doing everything in this house including paying all bills what he say I cook once in a while its not my fault she can't eat the food I cook because of her stomach surgery.. I never gave her permission to do that anyway. what I saw Oh my got $45000 in cash hiden in suitcases.. somethings up what he saw.. what I was afraid to tell her I have all this money.. i'm stupid I don't know any better What I saw.. Oh ****.. 7 ss cards with different names what he saw.. oh why is she stress a friend gave those to me.. i'm stupid I don't know any better what I saw dam it he gives me money then says I stole it what he saw.. I never told her she could take a dollor over the amount stated.. so she stole it I will inform everyone in the family.. well you guys get it.. My point is that every relationship has 2 sides each person believe a totally different thing.. I tell no lie when I give what my ex's views where he really stated these things not only to me but to my counselor families etc.. so when your wife/husband/significant other leaves you.. and you think you've done nothing wrong.. maybe in your eyes and mind you haven't but in your SO's thinking you have.. just a thought to throw out there.. since I have nothing better to do..
Barby Posted August 11, 2004 Posted August 11, 2004 A shady guy huh? So true that there are 2 sides to everything.....how different you two saw things...really makes ya say "hmm" What I saw I can't believe i'm doing everything in this house including paying all bills what he say I cook once in a while its not my fault she can't eat the food I cook because of her stomach surgery.. I never gave her permission to do that anyway. You may not wanna say just curious you can PM me if you want...was the surgery WLS??
Author DacaInaru Posted August 12, 2004 Author Posted August 12, 2004 Yup it was WLS I had a VBG will be one year on 8/18.. it saved my life best thing I ever did.. went from 5'2 260 to 175 off of almost all of my medications and i'm finally living I can and am doing things I would have never done a year ago.. I'm very open with my surgery so please feel free to ask questions.. i'm like the poster child for it.. lol..
Barby Posted August 12, 2004 Posted August 12, 2004 Wow congradulations! Glad to know it worked so well for you!
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