Lost420 Posted December 10, 2012 Posted December 10, 2012 There is alot of history in this one...so let me try to summurize it. First off we have been together for 7-8 years... Moved in together,bought ahouse and car together.. First we never wanted to get married and no kids.. I then had cheated on her in year 6-7 broke up for ayear...but we still hung out and we were trying to make it work.. I moved back in. we then decided to get married and have kids and the whole 9...at first i wanted all this...but i wasnt sure after a while.... i then tried to break up with her but then i broke down...dealing with inner problems, pressure from her family, living up to the expectations espically since i messed up from before...and trust me getting her back wasnt easy the first time... We always thought we were meant for each other... After moving back we really didnt have much sex..but at first i was ok with that... When i tried to break up with her...i was going thru depression of just everything in my life...got some anti-depressants.... After 3 weeks, i decided that i wanted to break up with her..i felt that i didnt wanna get married and have kids since that is what we thought before we got back and started talking about all that stuff... i thought maybe she should be with someone that wants those things.. So i left..moved out..its been about a week and a half and i feel soooo bad....i regret doing this...this is the worse decision in my life...she was the only one there for me..i dont have family to turn to...i really have just her...now she doesnt talk to me..i tried talking to her but she doesnt respond.. Can anyone help me in....getting through this....how to get her back...and coping with the lost of my best friend... that is the thing that kills me the most...losing my only and best friend... my heart literally hurts so much....and i dont know how to get thru this..everyone tells me it will be ok with time... i just cant see this...and i know now being away from her has shown me that she is the ONE for me...and i knew it all along...but i felt all those things around me was tearing me from outside in... i feel i made the worse decision ever... i need her back in my life...how would i go about doing this... any help would be great.... Thanks.. Confused and Lost
WhatYouWantToHear Posted December 10, 2012 Posted December 10, 2012 Leave this poor girl alone. Give her a chance to find someone who will make her happy and not be so wishy-washy on the relationship by doing something horrible (cheating, breaking up) then trying to win her back after you've had second and third thoughts about it.
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