Mr.White Posted December 10, 2012 Posted December 10, 2012 All I think about is her. When I am with my friends she seems to creep into my mind, when I am focusing on my project she creeps into my mind, whenever I do anything, even at the gym when I am working out! It might be because I am so stressed with finals right now and how I am going to break up with her. But seriously get the **** out of my head.
TaraMaiden Posted December 10, 2012 Posted December 10, 2012 Mr.White, you need to give this time - but as sure as the seasons follow one another, and as sure as Christmas falls on the 25th of december, if you maintain any form of contact with her, the time it takes will lengthen exponentially. Please be sure to read the No Contact Guide in my signature, and take it to heart. Copy, paste and print as many copies as needed in order to focus on it as much as currently, your mind is distracted elsewhere..... 2
todreaminblue Posted December 10, 2012 Posted December 10, 2012 All I think about is her. When I am with my friends she seems to creep into my mind, when I am focusing on my project she creeps into my mind, whenever I do anything, even at the gym when I am working out! It might be because I am so stressed with finals right now and how I am going to break up with her. But seriously get the **** out of my head. and it sucks i know.....if you are accident prone accidents ahead....alert alert
Author Mr.White Posted December 15, 2012 Author Posted December 15, 2012 Mr.White, you need to give this time - but as sure as the seasons follow one another, and as sure as Christmas falls on the 25th of december, if you maintain any form of contact with her, the time it takes will lengthen exponentially. Please be sure to read the No Contact Guide in my signature, and take it to heart. Copy, paste and print as many copies as needed in order to focus on it as much as currently, your mind is distracted elsewhere..... Thank you very much for your advice! It has been difficult but I have been hanging out with my friends lately but they know my mind is not in the right place. They understand my pain as they have been through it. No contact has been one of the hardest things for me and I broke it on Wednesday by checking her Twitter only to be heartbroken reading how she wore another man's jacket and I could not bare to read anymore. I am learning to move on from the 'break' I have from her and have even caught a few girls looking at me at the gym and held eye contact with them, but I want to heal completely before I ruin my chances with a few hot body babes TaraMaiden...you have had a profound impact on my life that will be carried on forever. That may sound fake but this is a critical point in my life of growing into a man. I will keep you updated on my situation. I am so grateful of your help.
Author Mr.White Posted December 15, 2012 Author Posted December 15, 2012 and it sucks i know.....if you are accident prone accidents ahead....alert alert haha I will try to stop these accidents but I am slowly moving on, but she is still in my mind. Sometimes more or less on some days but not as much as before. thank you for your advice
TaraMaiden Posted December 15, 2012 Posted December 15, 2012 Thank you very much for your advice! It has been difficult but I have been hanging out with my friends lately but they know my mind is not in the right place. They understand my pain as they have been through it. No contact has been one of the hardest things for me and I broke it on Wednesday by checking her Twitter only to be heartbroken reading how she wore another man's jacket and I could not bare to read anymore. I am learning to move on from the 'break' I have from her and have even caught a few girls looking at me at the gym and held eye contact with them, but I want to heal completely before I ruin my chances with a few hot body babes TaraMaiden...you have had a profound impact on my life that will be carried on forever. That may sound fake but this is a critical point in my life of growing into a man. I will keep you updated on my situation. I am so grateful of your help. You are far too kind; I'm quite simply very happy I could provide what you were looking for; No amount of good advice, counsel or support is worth a grain of salt, if the person needing them pays no heed. It takes two to create a result. Credit to you for being willing to listen - to me, or anyone else. All the best to you - and remember; we should never require the validation approval or love from someone else, to make us who we are. That is up to us, and how we use what life brings us, either dashes our spirits, or lifts us up above the clouds. Take care, be well, and be happy.
speedstreak Posted December 17, 2012 Posted December 17, 2012 Cut it out completely. Man through the withdrawals. Life is not built to give pleasure. As a product of natural selection, you will get over this,
M30USA Posted December 17, 2012 Posted December 17, 2012 Cut it out completely. Man through the withdrawals. Life is not built to give pleasure. As a product of natural selection, you will get over this, I am thoroughly intrigued and thoroughly confused by this post.
jwhite Posted December 17, 2012 Posted December 17, 2012 I think what he is trying to say is to block it out, which is disagree. The product of natural selection means we have the ability to prevail. If we were not able to rid ourselves of these thoughts we would be forever debilitated as a race. There are different ways to decrease the amount of thought that you spend with this person: acknowledgement and blocking it out. If you knew what the end result would be of each, which would you choose?
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