mortensorchid Posted December 10, 2012 Posted December 10, 2012 Last Friday I had a get together with someone. We went out for sushi and then for a movie. It started off as kind of a joke. We were Facebook friends, I knew him from a movie night a friend used to have ten years ago before he moved away. Over the last few weeks, we began to chat just because. I made some silly comment that we should get together sometime soon, because I hadn't seen him in about ten years. He said ok. We went out last Friday for dinner and a movie and caught up on things. We said our good-byes and he sent a text today (Sunday) saying he will be busy next weekend, but he was wondering if I would like to get together sometime this week. HOnestly, I am a little ... I don't know. I don't want to turn into one of those gals who only goes for exciting. I am past the want / need for a Bad Boy aka Alpha Male. I'm a grown up now. He's a nerd, quite honestly. He has a good job, seems to have it all together. But there is little to no passion here. He's a good guy (from the little I know about him), but his personality is that of someone weaker than me and I would end up being the dominent personality. I have had this happen in the past and the man ends up resenting it because of my more outgoing nature and more active social life. He admits that he doesn't really socialize that much. This would not be ... Balanced, would it? What does everyone think?
RachR Posted December 10, 2012 Posted December 10, 2012 Maybe you should just date a more extroverted male with a large social circle then. That doesn't have to mean you have to date a "bad boy" though.
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