ls32ssibm Posted December 10, 2012 Posted December 10, 2012 Feel free to disagree. In my overall experience and from watching friend's relationships. Make no mistake, though; males are to blame. If a girl is somewhat attractive, she will constantly be hit on on the social networking sites. Most men do not care if she has her statuses set to relationship mode, they will tell her how beautiful she is and flirt to his heart's content. Flattered, most women will be very receptive if the guy isn't a total creep. This is extremely harmful to the relationship because it plants the seed for a future GIGS episode. Women are also very poor in covering their tracks as most of them aren't too tech savvy. I had a relationship end in 2008 because my then girlfriend was doing exactly what I described, and when I went to fix her laptop at her request it was littered with evidence. When I confronted her about it, I was made out to be the bad guy. What do you guys think?
CptSaveAho Posted December 10, 2012 Posted December 10, 2012 (edited) Men do the same thing... its human nature and part of growing up... you can't stop gigs.... women just do it earlier in life Pick better girlfriends... Edited December 10, 2012 by CptSaveAho 2
blue_jay_bird Posted December 10, 2012 Posted December 10, 2012 (edited) Iv seen men and women do it. Who does it more is like splitting hair's and trying to define who is the weaker sex. The answer is.... humans in general. Shocker i know. "Women are also very poor in covering their tracks as most of them aren't too tech savvy." women and men are great at lying, if they know they aren't tech savvy they won't use the computer to emotionally cheat. I find women that emotionally cheat, put it out there to their boyfriends, to kind of point out that there is something wrong in the relationship, and this other man is meeting their emotional needs. Edited December 10, 2012 by blue_jay_bird
GLDheart Posted December 10, 2012 Posted December 10, 2012 Anyone is capable. If you want to really profile it why not say: "pretty, yet insecure, younger women, that had messed up family of origin dynamics, in a relationship that is about to escalate to the next level (moving in together, baby talk, marriage, etc.)..." But let's get real. If you want to avoid the "gigs" (or maybe just a relationship getting stale), keep up your continual process of self improvement... and stay away from shallow people. Live a good life and people will want to stay in it.
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