denxnis Posted December 10, 2012 Posted December 10, 2012 (edited) I wrote a draft email I may someday in the late future send to my ex... Even though I am not sending it now it really helped me vent and get past the temptation to contact her... I highly recommend this to anybody who feels like they need to vent. Just be sure not to send it anytime soon!! By the way it's been 5 days of No Contact!! woohoo ---------------------------------------------------------------------- There are billions of good looking girls out there, unfortunately there are only a few who posses the self-respect and compassion I am looking for. Many times the road less traveled is the best road taken. Sure most men/woman have casual sex and date dozens of different people, that doesn't make it right. I would have moved mountains to get you back, I really wish you had taken our time apart more seriously and not slept with your coworker. Sincerely, Guy who needs to vent. Edited December 10, 2012 by denxnis 1
Bumaga vsyo sterpit Posted December 10, 2012 Posted December 10, 2012 How I maintained "no contact" two months ago: Going out for a drive with a friend 4-5 hours a day, getting in a trance with thrilling horror or action movies, keeping a rambling audio diary on my iPhone, turning obsessively back to religion for the first time in ten years (God fail ), calling suicide hotlines, crying to my family, trying to converse with strangers (often scaring them), indulging in fantasies about my future without any emotional focus for strategy or action, yet constantly texting, cursing, and threatening the ex (knowing there were no legal/social consequences in the situation), with less and less frequency. We actually "got back together" for a month and she was telling me she loved me and taking all my ****, even "making plans" with me – the difference was that the change was useless, since right after she dumped me earlier, she had gotten married out of confusion, desperation and huge family pressure (to the poor clueless, dickless, crippled bastard she had been cheating with me on for five months, and two dozen other guys in five years). The marriage was in our very conservative Muslim country and there was no familial support, money or legal leeway to get her out of it. I realized once she had signed that piece of paper when we were broken up, that we could never make it work, and my feelings for her, bitter and hateful as they were, were no longer strong enough to spend a year or two arranging my plans and income around "freeing" her. Finally the bitch's grandmother died and she was unavailable for a few days. When she got back to me I had nothing left for her and cut her off completely. How I maintain no contact now: Effortlessly! I checked her Facebook recently and she had a picture of her father who died when she was 12, smoking a cigar. I thought of maybe paying someone to Photoshop a dick into his mouth and sending it to her, but I don’t think about her enough to even make the effort.
Suziee Posted December 10, 2012 Posted December 10, 2012 By the way it's been 5 days of No Contact!! woohoo ---------------------------------------------------------------------- There are billions of good looking girls out there, unfortunately there are only a few who posses the self-respect and compassion I am looking for. Many times the road less traveled is the best road taken. Sure most men/woman have casual sex and date dozens of different people, that doesn't make it right. I would have moved mountains to get you back, I really wish you had taken our time apart more seriously and not slept with your coworker. Sincerely, Guy who needs to vent. You call that venting? Good job keeping your emotions under control. Keep up the NC.
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